I never joined eHarmony because of all the bad stuff I've heard from friends. I had one friend who had three consecutive horrible experiences and she was put off for good.
I signed up to OkCupid.com which is 100-percent free. I did try Plenty of Fish, but I think those fish have been swimming in toxic waters. If the men didn't have three eyeballs, they were definitely missing some important brain activity!
Good luck, but look at all the other options out there.
What negative things have you ladies heard?
By the way, apparently I have a date with a 44-year-old man tomorrow. I'm 34. I don't have anything against older men. His hair is white though. Also, I have no idea what I'm doing.