I can't give you any recommendation but I love my doctor in Hoboken. Dr. Migliaccio is my doctor and i am sure would recommend someone. i actually think there is someone in the same office building. i see you posted this a bit ago so you probably already got info. hope it is going well!
I am sorry to hear about your problems. I have two reccommendations. First for Therapy I really like Mary Murphy(2nd and Bloomfield). I don't know if she specializes in exactly what you are looking for but she is a great therapist! Second if you are open to Eastern Medicine Dr. Loh (3rd and Willow) specializes in infertility and woman's health. I have gone to him for other female issues and he is amazing! It might be worth a try.