I keep checking the obits...

achase123

I know it's stupid, but I keep checking the obits, police reports, and sentencings in the paper for SD.  I know I shouldn't care, but I swear, it's morbid curiosity that makes me wonder what the heck happened to him.  It's been over a month since I've seen or heard from him and that's a new record.

Not that I'm complaining!

r9stedt

Has his family heard from him?

achase123

r9stedt:

Has his family heard from him?

Perhaps, but idk.  They don't speak of him, remember? 

r9stedt

Oh. Yea. Duh.  Someone will call you if he is dead.  Or you will just stop receiving child support checks. 

 

Oh wait........................... 

 

achase123

r9stedt:

Oh. Yea. Duh.  Someone will call you if he is dead.  Or you will just stop receiving child support checks. 

 

Oh wait........................... 

 

Yes.  They say bad news travels faster than good so I'm sure if something was truly wrong I would know. 

Oh yah, and about that CS.  Uh....I hate to say it but SS would be more consistent.

r9stedt

Just remember, he has to have had a job and pay into SS to receive it.  Right? LOL

 

Maybe his drug, uh, customers, would be willing to pay you monthly if he did die.   

achase123

r9stedt:

Just remember, he has to have had a job and pay into SS to receive it.  Right? LOL

 

Maybe his drug, uh, customers, would be willing to pay you monthly if he did die.   

Well he HAD a really good job for six plus years.  That has to count for something, right?  Right?

Mrs.Keith2B

Is it wrong that part of me giggles that one of the places you check for news on your X is the obits? I mean, I know that sounds morbid, but it really says a lot about him as a person.

DaringMiss

Set a Google Alert for him...

PoundCake

I know that feeling.  Everytime I hear a cop car or ambulance, my heart stops and I think.

achase123

Mrs.Keith2B:

Is it wrong that part of me giggles that one of the places you check for news on your X is the obits? I mean, I know that sounds morbid, but it really says a lot about him as a person.

I don't think it's wrong at all!  It IS kind of funny!  He always told me he thought he would die young.  It was just a feeling that he always had....

SuchASpectacularSpectacle

...which he obviously felt the need to bring to fruition?

I really thought you were going to say you were checking the obits because of that girl he was in a wreck with, but you said she was doing better, right? 

achase123

SuchASpectacularSpectacle:

...which he obviously felt the need to bring to fruition?

I really thought you were going to say you were checking the obits because of that girl he was in a wreck with, but you said she was doing better, right? 

Yah, she's doing a lot better.  She is walking and out of the wheelchair.  Still has some trouble with delayed speech and that sort of thing though.

I am giggling at the word "fruition".  The pres in my office uses this word all.the.time.  It's like her favorite word EVER.  I can't hear it from her or anyone else without giggling.  It's like "it's the word of the century, let's use it any chance we get to make ourselves feel smart".  Or at least that is the way I interpret it when she says it.