I opted for civility. She's leaving as soon as she can get her ticket changed which will be this week. It's not fair to DS to be in the middle of our spat and he doesn't understand. He's hurt and I can explain better once she's gone. I'm giving him extra snuggles and do the best I can. When we woke up this morning we curled up on the sofa together under his blankets and watched DD play until we had to get dressed for the doctor's appointment. And I took him out for lunch while we were waiting for prescriptions to be filled. I'm too tired to deal with her wrath and dish out my own. I've barely gotten three hours of sleep a night for the past week while DD has been on the steroids. I'm tired and I just want my house back and our regular routine.