Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss


This Thursday is my EDD and instead of getting ready to give birth I am bleeding out my second miscarriage. Sorry for the tmi. I just feel numb, I'm back at work and just don't know what the hell is going on. I'm to numb to cry. I just want to stay in bed all day, make that all week. How do we move on from the pain when we are always reminded of it?

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  • I wish I had an answer...but time does help heal wounds...I had a large gap between this m/c and my 2nd one(2 years). I was basically fine(not sad anymore) but now I am super sad. I am sorry. Feel better! And if this makes you laugh, I have to say...in your siggy pic you  look like the Barbie bride...lol :)
  • I wish I could develop a potion to give everyone to take away the pain. I can't imagine going through a miscarriage more than once. I'm so sorry you are going through this. I don't know if this helps any but it has helped me to just focus on one day, one hour at a time. I had to go back to work a week after delivering our son. So especially at work I just try to focus on each task at hand. Then every day I feel like I had accomplished something. (Sort of, 'hey another day down I give myself a pat on the back.' :-) )
    I hope it gets a little bit easier for you soon.
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  • I am so sorry you are hurting so much.  It is not fair.
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  • I am so sorry clery.
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

  • That's so sad. I'm sorry & can only imagine how difficult this week is for you.  I said a prayer for you & your husband.
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