Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

wow... never thought i'd be here....

i am in shock... and completely devistated.  i am sure you all know the feeling.  this isnt how this was supposed to go at all.  i cant stop crying and being mad.  i know its just the beginning but it feels like the end.  after all the tests and u/s for it to end like this is just devastating.  its so raw... i have my dr appt tomorrow to talk about "treatment options" guess we will see...

Re: wow... never thought i'd be here....

  • Hi Lisa,

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  This is the best place to vent that anger and frustration as we all understand.  You're in my thoughts and prayers.  ::hugs to you::

  • I'm sorry..I know it hurts....:(


    3 m/c's

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  • I am sorry for your loss.  Don't hold back your feeling, they need to call come out.  I know you don't think so (I know I didn't) but it does get easier with time.  I noticed the 3 month mark there was a huge difference.

    m/c April '08
    DD#1 born June '09
    DD#2 born April '11
    TTC #3 as of July '14

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.   I know the exact feeling you are talking about.  This board is great and it helped me through so much.  Just knowing there are other people out there who know just what you are going through.  Hang it there, each day gets a little easier.  :)
  • It is such a bad "club" to belong to. I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.
  • i'm so sorry for your loss...i will say that once you unfortunately are here, it's a great place to be. everyone is very supportive and great to answer any question, however stupid you may think it is.
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  • Lisa---I'm so sorry for your loss! All the emotions and feelings you have described we totally understand. It sucks!!! You feel like the world keeps moving and your standing still devestated. I hope you will find comfort and support here. Hang in there! :::BIG HUGS:::
    ~Jess & Mike May 12, 2007
    12.6.07 CP at 5w
    5.21.08 BO discovered at 7w, D&E at 8w3d
    8.31.08 CP at 4w5d
    BFP Sept 25, 2008 bfp buddy lkstor Landon born June 6, 2009
    3.25.11 missed m/c discovered at 9w6d, D&E at 10w2d
    4.28.11 MTHFR a1298c homozygous discovered
    4.2011 Began NaProTechnology
    10.12.11 Diagnosed with Type III Luteal Phase Defect
    10.2011 Starting hcg injections on 5, 7 & 9 dpo
    BFP 12.7.11 - EDD 8.14.12 - IT'S A BOY! Fruit Baby
    Life During and After RPL
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. :-(
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  We are here for you.
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

  • I know your pain... I am sorry for your loss... We are here for you if you need us...
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel.  As you can see by my little angel's ticker I am fairly new also.  It is so hard.  This board has been so supportive and helpful.  I am sure you will find as much comfort here as I have.  I wish you the best and just take it one day at a time. 
  • I know how much it hurts, I'm sorry for your loss. I am going through my second one now. It will get better I know it is hard to imagine but it does. Hugs
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