Single Parents
Seems us SP gals have been getting some dating action
Or just action in general. Ok, anyone that's getting any, or had a date, spill the details, I wanna know *cough, cough* Darth *cough*.
I will start, I had a Thursday night overnight make-out session followed by a Friday morning date. Don't think it's going anywhere but that's ok. He's just coming out of a broken engagement and is pretty immature as well, but totally sweet. And, idk why, there's something I really like about him. And he's NOT my typical huge, muscle-head weightlifter type (BGG you would be proud).
Anywho, what's everyone else up to?
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Re: Seems us SP gals have been getting some dating action
I'm not dating anybody, but I have something that is starting to turn into FWB... that's fine if that's all it turns out to be. He was divorced on the same day, but no kids. It's just some fun, and more fun than I've had with XH in years.
Fine, I'll spill
I'm just going to c/p what I wrote on MeMo
Ok, so I know I've regaled the board with my online dating stories, and how 99.5% of the losers on the site have just made me laugh...Well, a while ago I saw a profile of someone who was cute AND their profile didn't include half nude pictures. Winner! So I sent him a message and we talked back and forth for a few days. He also has a daughter who is 10 months older than my girls.
After we got more comfortable talking, I asked about his divorce, and he asked about mine. I sh!t you not, the only thing I said was "my ex-h couldn't take the stress of my high risk pregnancy and losing his dad to a terminal illness". I figured I didn't want to appear the bitter biatch of an ex-wife by letting loose of ALL that went down.
The next email I got from the guy was "Well, this is about to get really awkward, because we've actually met before". Turns out, he went to college with my ex-BIL, and has hung out a few times with my ex-H when he's been over at BIL's house. Apparently, he met me once when the girls were very young and I was over at ex-BIL's house.
Naturally, he expected that I wouldn't respond back, and I really debated not. But we'd been getting along so well, that I couldn't see ending just talking over him being a former acquaintance with my ex-H. Obviously I couldn't judge HIS character over being friends with ex, seeing that I was actually married to him, lol. We continued to talk, and decided to get our girls together (she was with him for Christmas Break). We've taken them to Gatti Town, Chick-Fil-A, had dinner together, and gone to Giggle Bugs (where TigerMom and some of my other mom friends got to meet him).
We finally got around to our adult time date yesterday after our kids went to their other parents' houses. He took me to see a movie, and out to a Hibachi dinner. He even bought me perfume that I had mentioned when we first started talking, as a Christmas present. Things have just been going so, so well and I'm pretty happy.
And the most hilarious thing about our date? His ex-wife and her entire family were at the same restaurant. Seriously - SMALL DAMN WORLD!
yay Darth! Wonder if I know this dude too, lol
Oh you know. 2 more weeks and our official one year dating anniversary. Wooo.
I met this guy on the night of my birthday party. I was out at the bar having a good time and this guy started talking to me. We hung out again that weekend, and the next weekend, but then he dropped off the face of the planet. I don't play games. I deleted his number after I didn't hear from him for a week.
I have a boyfriend
We met online back in October and have spend every Tuesday night and one night on the weekend ever since. He has met my brothers and we spent Christmas Eve together. I am over the moon happy.
But. I try to not talk about him too much because I still have a lot of insecurities because of what happened with my marriage. He has never done anything to make me think that anything with us is less than perfect, but I can't help but have a lot of worry about the floor dropping out from under me. I am getting better with things and as we get more serious my worries are getting less and less, but they are still there. I tend to internalize a lot of things and I am working hard on getting over that stuff.
Sorry, went off on a little tangent there LOL
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I have a friend.. weve gone ona few dates here and there. Ive actually known him for a few yrs.. hes the guy you always tend to overlook when you know hes probably the one for you. Its been really nice to have a companion. He took me to NYC right before christmas just for the day. It was really nice.
No dating. But, a FWB situation going on? Or I guess has been doing on since April. We work together. It's surprisingly not awkward at all. We don't talk about it at work, but every couple months we send each other the "I'm coming over" text. We do what we do and get dressed and leave.
I wouldn't even mess with it if it wasn't the only lovin' I've been getting in A LONG TIME. That and he's effing fantastic in the sack.