DH's grandmother is such a witch of a women. She is a penny pincher and as a result she is loaded!!! She has never been a mother/grandmother type of person, so this shouldn't come as a surprise to me. But she never acknowledged Austin's birthday, and this Christmas she sent didn't send DH or Austin anything.
Now I am not expecting presents at all, but maybe a card would be nice. She told my MIL that since DH doesn't live at home anymore he has been cut off. Her words exactly! Like I said I am not expecting anything, but I know DH is hurt, because when we go over to the IL's for presents on Christmas, FIL, MIL, BIL. DH's 2 adopted sisters will not get presents either, because they are not blood related (isn't that sad)
I guess I just don't understand how a grandmother could be so wicked. I grew up with grandparents that pretty much spoiled us rotten, so it is weird to me that a grandmother could be so cold.