The voodoo dolls and good vibes worked, SD DID NOT show up to court this am. We got everything we wanted!
NO visitation, unless and until he completes a parenting class and files a motion to petition to have the visits reinstated.
I keep my 401(k) and house and we both keep our respectives vehicles (this was all stuff that we didn't decide when the divorce was finalized by bifurcation).
So, in short, it's going to be a great Christmas! I am ecstatic and so relieved. Is it to early to have a bottle of wine??
Thanks for all of your positive vibes and energy ladies! Love you all!!!