TTC After a Loss

Post M/C doctor's appt!

So I had my follow up, post M/C dr's appt yesterday. It was so so hard to be in that office. All the pregnant ladies (who I am happy for and I know they may have been thru their own struggles ttc) and even the receptionist looked as if she is due any day. I was alone as DH couldn't get time off work since he has this new job. I was feeling super alone. Then it dawned on me that these are steps I HAVE to take to get to our end result. The last 2 weeks really did go by so fast. Then my dr took a TON of time to speak to me and answer questions. Told me to ignore people's comments about it being meant to be and being for the best. Then I asked him when we could start ttc again and he said just wait until you get your first period and you should be good to go. So come on AF. Yeah I know it could be a while but I just feel so much better to have answers. I LOVE my dr he is wonderful. He even helped me with a workout and meal plan to get super healthy.

Have a great Tuesday ladies!

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Re: Post M/C doctor's appt!

  • Sounds like you have a great path forward!  Come on, AF!!
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  • Sounds like you have a good plan. I think it helps to be proactive like that. Good Doc!
    DS Born 10/05/99 DSS Born 7/11/95 BFP 05/11/10 - Missed M/C, D&C 06/23/10 BFP 8/3/2010 - Ectopic, Methotrexate 8/17/10 BFP 1/27/11- Please God let this heart beat strong. Beta1 17dpo-314 Beta2 20dpo-883 Beta3 22dpo-1861 Beta4 25dpo-5918 DS2 Born 10/07/99 "I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he shall be given over to the LORD." 1Sam1v24to28.
  • Sounds like a great dr's appt.  I hate that first appt after MC. 
  • I love your positive attitude!  I went to the OB last week, 5 months after my loss, and still cried like a baby.
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  • Your doctor sounds great. I'm glad your appointment went so well and you got all of your questions answered. I hope AF hurries the heck up!
    Natural MCs 2/4/09, 8/22/09 & 4/7/10
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    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • Bring on AF! :) Glad it went well for you!
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  • You're lucky to have such a great doctor!  Waiting for the first AF can be a test of patience, but sounds like you have a great attitude.  GL!
    Anniversary BFP #1: 5-20-10, m/c 5-29-10 @ 5w6d BFP #2: 8-04-10, missed m/c discovered 8-31-10, d&c 9-02-10 BFP #3: 4-08-11 ~ EDD: 12-16-11 Praying that the third time's a charm... Please get comfy & stick around LO!
  • I hope your AF comes soon.  It is so nice when doctors take time to talk and make sure their patient is ok.  I need a doctor like that.

  • Thank you for the support ladies. My dr is super amazing. Both of my sisters used him and my friend is currently a patient of his. He was a bit late yesterday b/c of a delivery but he didn't try to rush me to get back on track. He is so worth the wait. And to top it off is name is Dr. Love. Haha
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  • Sounds like a good appointment, glad to hear it went well!

    Lots of AF dust to you!

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