Seriously stressed right now!!! (long)

cutebride73

Took my DD to the ER last night for severe abdominal pain.  Thought maybe it was another ovarian cyst (she had one in August that required surgery).  It wasn't that or kidney stones.  In fact, they have no clue and can't figure it out.  She will hopefully be sent home tonight and we will follow up with her GP and I need to make her an appt with an OBGYN. 

Then my cycle - I went for my follie check yesterday - was great - 3 follies over 11 - two ont he right - a 12 and a 15 and one on the left - a 14.  I figured another day or two of stims and then trigger.  The nurse called with my instructions and told me my RE wanted me to yesterday!!  I was completely shocked and it seemed way too early to trigger.   I almost did it, but we were on our way out the door for the day and I just couldn't handle trying to rush and dothe shot.

Well, thanks goodness I didn't because a different nurse called an hour and half later and said that I was to stim again last night and trigger today!!!!!  I was so upset - I almost triggered and the only reasons I didn't was because I felt too rushed and I just didn't understand why I was triggering so soon. 

I called this morning to talk to my coordinator to see what was going on.  Strangely, she seemed rather short tempered with me for asking all the questions.  She told me that the dr had wanted me to trigger yesterday and then changed her mind and decided to stim me for another day.  Like it is just completely normal to give an order and then change their mind.  She said I can trigger anytime today I want and then we are to have sex today, tomorrow and the next day.  No specific time of day or number of hours.   

Guess we'll see what happens, but I am just so stressed about everything I can't see how this has a chance of working. 

  

ravenorchid

I'm sorry, sweetie. Sounds like a lot of stressful issues are happening right now. I really hope your DD feels betters soon and that you get some answers. That's definitely weird that the dr changed their mind after already giving you an order to trigger. Honestly, sometimes I feel like some of us know more about this stuff than our doctors. ((Hugs))

tctibbe

Big hugs! I'm sorry this is all stressing you out. I hope your DD feels better soon. I would be very irritated with the doctors office if I were you. Maybe you should try to talk to the doctor and just let him/her know how much trouble that caused you. Either way, you didn't need the stress. Do something good for yourself today and de-stress before FWP. Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

ColleenS629

I'm sorry about your DD and your nurse/ dr. situation. A similar thing happened to me with the severe abdominal pain. It took them a week to decide to do exploratory surgery. Once they were in, they saw it was my appendix which "wasn't showing up" on the CT. I hope they figure out what's wrong with your DD soon!

jertie

Wow - no wonder you're stressed!  I'm so sorry that everything dumped on you all at once.  I hope they figure out what's causing DD's pain and are able to take care of it without anything invasive.  Also hope that your triggering works out and you have good news for us in a couple of weeks!!

itsmegin

I am so sorry for all that you are going through. I hope things start looking better for you and that this cycle works and doesn't stress you out too much.

cutebride73

Thanks ladies!!  You are all so sweet. 

I don't think I am going to get very far with my dr office though - they seemed irritated over me questioning things.  I also have to call and make an appt with the RE to discuss moving on to IVF which we are supposed to do after the holidays.  I want to get an appt before the end of this cycle so I can be ready to go.

AGFaso

who cares if they are irritated w/your questions...thats why they get paid the big bucks!  Gosh.Jerks.  I hope this cycle is going to giv eyou your sticky baby hun!!