Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Could really slap someone right now....(DD pic in sig)

I found out a friend of mine's old neighbor lost her 2 month old daughter to "SIDS" earlier in the week. After having just lost my daughter at 28 wks 3 days gestation, I identified with this woman and cried for her even though she regularly used drugs the whole time she was pregnant, a mama is a mama and losing a child is losing a child, KWIM?

We just got news that the mother admitted to being high on drugs and smothering the baby because she wouldn't stop crying.

Lord, forgive me for the thoughts I am having. What I would give to lay my hands on her right now and slap the mess out of her! Why couldn't she just give that precious little angel to someone who wanted her? There are so many women TTC who can't and so many of us who have lost our babies. So many families who would have loved that baby regardless of the circumstances she came from.

And right before Christmas there's another hurting family when all she had to do was lay down the drugs and be a mama.

DD#1 11.7.07 - DD#2 11.2.10 (3rd Tri Loss)- DD#3 4.18.12

Re: Could really slap someone right now....(DD pic in sig)

  • I am sitting here with my mouth open as I read this.  I cannot believe someone could do something that horrible to a precious baby.  If I could I would help you slap the mess out of her.  Oh what I would give to hear my Aiden cry- I long for that sound.  This is just horrible. 

    I also just saw your siggy and it looks like November 2, 2010 was truly a hard day this year for so many people.  I can't believe it's been a month and half since we lost Aiden.  I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl.

     

     

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  • I am absolutely speechless. Again, I felt that feeling of sorrow to anger in mere seconds. I cannot believe this. At all! How do you carry something so precious, a blessing from God no less for 9 months only to throw it all away. I will never understand this. And like you, Lord help me give it to You. Done with this.
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