I need patience!

yagerismydog

I lost last month at 6 weeks. Since then, I have felt like I have nothing to look forward to. I feel like I am just waiting around to get pregnant again. Which I want right now! Its frustrating and I know it hasnt been that long but still. I dont even know when Im ovulating because I didnt really have a period.  I am so confused.

I get sad when I hear other people that are pregnant and jealous. I want to be pregnant. I know it will come eventaully but its hard just waiting for it. Putting this pressure on my body probably isnt good either. I try to fake not thinking about it but I am! I know I just need to relax about it but its really hard. I have waves of being sad, eating too much and almost crying.

Thanks for listening

ravenorchid

((Hugs)) Everything you're feeling is completely normal. It can take a lot of time to heal from a loss like this, both emotionally and physically. GL!

petergene14

Hi- I know just how you feel. I lost mine last month as well and we are wanting to get pregnant again. I think these feelings are completely normal and are a sign we are going through the grieving process. I have yet to have my period yet after I had the D&C mid-Nov. but I think it's going to be starting soon. 

Its funny that you posted this because I actually just decided a way that I'm trying to put it out of my mind. I am planning a Hawaiian vacation around April when I would have been due to deliver. Also my husband and I are going through a 90 day workout program that we have been really focused on. But I have to say the thoughts still pop in my mind.

MandaS08

I felt/feel exactly the same way-since my loss in September I felt like I had nothing to look forward to and was just waiting around until I was pregnant again.  As time went on, and b/c I had to wait to TTC, I have tried to refocus and concentrate on things I needed to that I had neglected-like my marriage and health.  I hope it get easier for you, but the jealousy, sadness-its all normal and we've all been/are there!

jertie

I'm so sorry.  Like the other ladies have said, what you are feeling is completely normal.  I hope that hearing that makes you feel less awful - it won't take away your pain, but it really helps to know that you are not alone.  ((HUGE HUGS))