Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

It's just not right

DH saw a lady who was hugely pregnant having three strollers loaded into her minivan... THREE...  How is this fair? I mean, couldn't God have said... Okay, we'll give you one and then give the other two to some of these girls who were not as fortunate.... Where is the balance??  I'm glad I didn't see it. I might have had to poke her in the eye!

Re: It's just not right

  • I think about that all the time....

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  • Agree a million and a half percent..
  • What helps me with times like that is not knowing her. I mean, if she's having triplets it's quite possible it was done through invitro so she was struggling before she was blessed with those 3 little guys/gals.

    I remember when we went to OB for my initial meeting but ended up being my follow up, there were plenty of pregnant ladies in there. DH was uncomfortable and thought it bothered me as well. I told him no because I didn't know their story. It's quite possible they went through many m/c or had trouble conceiving. 

    Go ahead and feel the slight jealousy of them being pregnant but let it go after that. One day you'll be that pregnant lady that others will look at with envy. Smile

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