porn (vent)

GRISMINO

I found out DH watches porn on his phone, I was pissed! I've caught him several times watching it on our computer and it's fine we even watch it together sometimes... but the fact that he also watches it on his phone and has all those pictures/videos really bothered me   I know I need to confront him but I don't have the energy  and I don't want to be upset with him   Anyway I'm just letting it out, I had to tell somebody...

bourk997

Loveisfaithful.com and anything on Theology of the Body may help you and your husband through this.  Here is a link to an article on the situation:

https://www.loveisfaithful.com/protect-your-family/5-shocking-statistics/10-7-steps-to-protect-your-family-from-pornography

ToledoDeux

What's the difference between having it on his computer or having it on his phone?  He likes porn, bfd.

mxpxgirl13

Is he playing the videos on his phone at inappropriate times or something? Other than that, I don't see the difference between doing it on the phone vs. the computer..

GRISMINO

ToledoDeux:

What's the difference between having it on his computer or having it on his phone?  He likes porn, bfd.

I know it's the same thing but I guess it bothered me more because I know he has access to it all the time and watches/likes it more then I thought

smellycat15

That would bother me too. Only because I really don't get why he would do it on the phone. Where is he that he can't access a computer that he needs it on his phone? IDK. That just weirds me out. Plus my sister has gone through my phone looking at pics and that would freak me out to have that on my phone. Can't you compromise that he can look at it on his computer but not have it on his phone? 

mariannerules

I'm not bothered by porn, but it is kinda weird on his phone. 

AutumnBride929

ToledoDeux:

He likes porn, bfd.

Hehe.  But... yeah.

ryry1977

I would be upset if DH had it on his phone also.  That would mean that he is watching it a lot!  Would not be ok with that.