Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Got my first, how's the pregnancy going, question today.

I m/c 11 weeks ago. My friends and family were great about spreading the news so I wouldn't have to tell people we lost the baby. I was almost 12 weeks when I m/c so quite a few coworkers knew I was pregnant. Just a few minutes ago I ran into a coworker I don't see often. She asked if I was having any cravings. I feel like someone punched me in the stomach. Dammit.
Lucy 12.18.06, Will 6.21.09 & Adeline 11.2.11

Re: Got my first, how's the pregnancy going, question today.

  • awww. im so sorry the same thing happened to me it sucks!! (( HUGS)))
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  • Dang that sucks.  I hate that you can get (what feels like so far) in pregnancy and then m/c.  I didn't have any complications or issues with DS so was eager to tell people as soon as I got my BFP.  Today I get to un-tell them.  I know, though, that the word won't get to everyone so I will have to un-tell people later on which will be hard.
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  • That stinks. We had our company holiday party yesterday and some coworkers I don't see often were shocked to see me drinking. One asked me to reminder her when I was due - I replyed "I'm not."  I think she got the picture and changed the subject.
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  • Oh geeze, I am so sorry. That could not have been easy. Hope your day gets a little better. .
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  • (((hugs))) so sorry you had to got through that. 

  • I completely understand, I have gotten it twice this week. Once from a lady I worked with years ago who knew I was expecting again and then from an old co-worker here who recently moved back into town....he posted on my FB page.. "hey girl, how's the new little one coming along?"
    DD#1 11.7.07 - DD#2 11.2.10 (3rd Tri Loss)- DD#3 4.18.12
  • Oh gosh, that has happened to me. It is so hard to deal with those questions.
    DS Born 10/05/99 DSS Born 7/11/95 BFP 05/11/10 - Missed M/C, D&C 06/23/10 BFP 8/3/2010 - Ectopic, Methotrexate 8/17/10 BFP 1/27/11- Please God let this heart beat strong. Beta1 17dpo-314 Beta2 20dpo-883 Beta3 22dpo-1861 Beta4 25dpo-5918 DS2 Born 10/07/99 "I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he shall be given over to the LORD." 1Sam1v24to28.
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