What do you say?

dbertagni

My poor poor friend. I am just distraught right now. She just lost her 2nd baby at 32 weeks yesterday, he lived for a few hours, her first baby she lost at 18 weeks, he died in utero. I just do not even know what to do or say or what words to tell her? Please keep her in your thoughts.

KaitySueWho

Oh no.. I'll keep her in my thoughts and prayers.. There is nothing that you can really say to make it any better, just be there for her when she needs you.

lalabee0425

Oh my Lord. There are no words. This is so terrible and so sad. I'll keep her family in my prayers.

sophabelle

how awful!!! i am so sorry, there just aren't any words that do this situation justice. they will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers.

flamencogal

That is absolutely horrible!  Definitely in my thoughts...

As an aside, it's none of my business I realize but DS was a 32 weeker and usually 32 weekers make it.  I'm assuming there was something else going on besides prematurity?  Regardless, I can't imagine how devastated she must be. 

MrsHughesNC

How terribly sad. I am so sorry for your friend's loss...I can't imagine her pain.

dbertagni

flamencogal:

That is absolutely horrible!  Definitely in my thoughts...

As an aside, it's none of my business I realize but DS was a 32 weeker and usually 32 weekers make it.  I'm assuming there was something else going on besides prematurity?  Regardless, I can't imagine how devastated she must be. 

I just found out she was 27 weeks. It is just so horrible, she just send that God has a plan and this is part of it, but I don't think I could handle it. She had ruptured membranes in both cases but I am not sure if there was something actually wrong with the babies.

MelBee12

how heart breaking...:(