So do you go all out with decorations, gifts, activities at xmas or keep it low key?
We do a tree and a few decorations. I have this magnetic advent calendar that DS loves this year. Each year we buy each other 2 hallmark ornaments that represent each other, and that is what is on the tree.
We do few gifts. For the past two years DS and I don't buy each other gifts and just spend the money on house projects or vacations. DS doesn't get much. This year I bought him a new wooden train set and some books.
Re: Xmas at your house: All out or low key?
We are low-key. Our tree is this 4-foot fake one that we bought when we lived in a tiny apartment. It looks kind of ridiculous in our house. Next year, we'll get our sh*t together and get a real one. I'm going to buy a real wreath and put that on the front door, and that's it.
Gifts are also low-key. DH and I usually buy small gifts for each other (last year we just did stockings for each other). This year, I'm giving him 1 or 2 presents plus 1 from DS. And we only got DS a few toys; I'm also going to wrap up some new sippy cups and stuff like that.
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