no sex drive. :(

ginsing

I have zero desire to have sex... anyone else feel this way? I was so sick from weeks 6-11, and now that the ms is basically gone, I was hoping that my sex drive would come back...but it hasn't. I literally have NO interest. Poor DH. We haven't had sex in about 6 weeks!

JillianMoody

i have no drive either but my ms is still going strong.  but at least once a week i give in and let my hubbs have it just so he leaves me alone.

J9melissa

Mine returned last night at the oddest point.

I went from feeling like I was going to get sick...To "OMGosh I have to have it right now".

It was weird.

amanda1680

I could have written this exact post myself. I've started to feel better recently, but I still have no desire whatsoever.  DH has been so good to me throughout this entire pregnancy, and I feel really bad about it... 

KrysmarieG10

that might be a good thing!   Iv bled several times after sex...1 time sending me to the er.  hubby says no more sex until after the baby is born...although, I doubt he or I can wait that long..   Hopefully it will come back to you..with no bleeding

ginsing

thanks guys - it helps to hear I'm not alone. DH has been wonderful and so patient and understanding, but I feel super guilty. I'm hoping it comes back soon...but I'm thinking I need to just go ahead and do it for DH's sake.

zoomanager

sex?  what is that?  

No drive here between the sickness and headaches -

but then after a bleeding scary early on my doctor put us on pelvic rest till further notice-- which is a doctors way of saying "no sex."  So even if I had a drive, I wouldn't be able to do anything.  

IdigDirt

I was kind of in your boat. I was not in the mood but tried to get into it for DH's sake and it was AWESOME. Something about extra blood flow or something. Now even if I am not feeling it I give in and it's pretty good. Just think sexy thoughts for a few minutes, hopefully that will help.

courtneybrooke921

You are NOT alone...

We've had sex twice since our BFP..

I'm hoping over the next couple of weeks I feel better & my urge comes back!!!

Sammy1022

I feel exactly the same way that you do. I'm not feeling sick and I'm not as tired as I was before but I still have no interest in having sex. I don't even feel like kissing. I feel bad because my boyfriend has been amazing and understanding but I just have no desire. I'm hoping like you are that it returns soon because I  miss the intimacy.

Sam_Tiff121309

I must be wierd.  It seems like I have wanted it constantly!!!!!  My DH on the other hand is scared.  So we are talking with doctor today to reassure him it is safe.

march2008

I am in the same boat. I'm hoping things improve as I get into the 2nd trimester. I miss the closeness with DH, but I feel so gross most of the time that it just wouldn't be a pleasant experience.

ginsing

me too. I just feel disgusting and so bloated and tired. I just have zero desire whatsoever. I don't even feel like kissing.

skrichar

I have had no desire whatsoever! I have to "rally" every now and then for DH's sake - but it's been rare.

We "tried" this weekend, however, but apparently a new symptom has kicked in - extreme wetness - and it was not working for DH. UGH, I go through all the trouble to put out and for nothing!

Lol, it's going to be a long few months for both of us