Some of you judgemental b*tches need to

maria22hz

hear, learn, and master the golden rule ... do you know it?  AND, if you don't have anything nice to say then SHUT THE F*** UP! 

 Seriously, I rarely post but when and if I do the majority of the responses are from sad women who love to make others feel stupid.

I love to read posts and I've learned a lot from a lot of women on here, I love that this is a place where we can be vulnerable and ask for advice when we need it.  

 And then there are those women ..... I'll pray for their LOs

ToledoDeux

WTF are you talking about?

AutumnBride929

sgrl

Not flaming, but what brought this on? I'm curious.

Temp159135562506975

i must have missed something.

but really -this is the bump/nest.... this is not a new thing... if you can't take the rude, mean, and sometimes just plain honest answers people give - then you don't belong on a public message board - b/c there will always be those who are rude, mean, and sometimes honest, saying the things that you don't want to hear.

 

sam19

Thank you for my afternoon laugh.

Ivana_Stolichnaya

Wow wow wow...simma down.  What happened here?

Shelf Elf

This is not a nice way to speak to other Bumpies!  Naughty naughty

 

Sage Mommy

I'm pretty sure "shut the fvck up" isn't part of the golden rule, but you may have a different version of the manual than I do.

 

ttmccoot

maria22hz:

hear, learn, and master the golden rule ... do you know it?  AND, if you don't have anything nice to say then SHUT THE F*** UP! 

 

i'm fairly certain that this is not part of the golden rule.

farrellashleigh

whoa, I missed something...

ljlkm

I don't think anyone was really judgmental, just tired of seeing the same question aske for the 67,893rd time this week. Ok, maybe they were judgmental about that. But funny.

mfransdell

1. The Golden Rule does not mention STFU anywhere in it. Im pretty positive, I went to Catholic school.

2. Im going to need names.

3. It's been a while since I've seen one of these posts.

haleymay18

Wow. The golden rule is really shining through in this post.

 

Lopo

Come on now, I read the responses for your FF vs. RF post and most people answered you honestly.  If you lurked as you say you do, you would know the amount of threads on this subject.  Some of the girls were just trying to be funny.

Symharmony

I need a link to what you are talking about.  Also it's the internet, don't let people get to you so much.  Some people just like to stir things up to see what happens.

Shayna0182

Do you feel sorry for our husbands too?   Look, I know you are referring to your post below, but c'mon use common sense.  This is a message board.  We have no idea what the heigh/weight requirements are in your state.  We also don't know the specifics about your lo, and how much they weigh, what your car is like and how they fit.   It is always better to RF,  but if you bothered to scroll down, you would have read some of the lengthy discussions on the matter.   

No one is nasty, just to be nasty, but if you create a post just to call out "nasty b!tches"  then you will be flamed. 

ljlkm

See the "When is it safe to FF" post.

OCMom2be

You gotta have somewhat thick skin to survive here. If you dish it, you have to be able to take it. And in this case, don't make a post calling some of the bumpies bishes and not come back to defend what you're talking about. And yes, telling them to "shut the fvck up".. is not very nice either!

sarcole530

Oh honey. Really?

P.S. Elf's response made me smile.

smellycat15

who are you?

ladysingstheblues

Echowysp

Yes 'em?

mfransdell

OCMom2be:

You gotta have somewhat thick skin to survive here. If you dish it, you have to be able to take it. And in this case, don't make a post calling some of the bumpies bishes and not come back to defend what you're talking about. And yes, telling them to "shut the fvck up".. is not very nice either!

I like when you get feisty!

Mrs.S-S

Shayna0182:

Do you feel sorry for our husbands too?  

 LOL! That was my next question!

ChelleM

I didn't intend to mock you in my response to your post about FF vs/ RF.

I was mocking all the people that are so CARAZEE about FF.

rebus82

ladysingstheblues:

MOMMY, THE INTERNETS IS PICKING ON ME!  

fairychick77

Someone's having a bad day.

Sage Mommy

ChelleM:

I didn't intend to mock you in my response to your post about FF vs/ RF.

I was mocking all the people that are so CARAZEE about FF.

In my defense, I was just giving additional pointers.

tarebear9891

Oh wow. If you can't handle the RF vs FF topic you probably shouldn't be here.

FerreraRocher

As with any form of "community" you will get some great information, support, feedback...and you'll get the rude, snarky and negative. Remember the good and forget the negative. Things get heated around you but at the end of the day it's just an internet community.

Mrs.Hizzo

OK, OP, seriously? You need to figure out where you stashed your sense of humor, because some of the responses to your post were flat-out funny. How could you not laugh at "my DH has recently learned to drive while RFing" and "We FF, but drive in reverse?" I don't even think anyone was judging you, more just making a comment on the hot-and-over-posted topic du' jour. You are WAY oversensitive if you're praying for people's children over this ridiculousness.

SailorGray

sarcole530:

P.S. Elf's response made me smile.

They always make me smile. I think it's how "he" sits so lady-like in the siggy.

returnhomegnome

I get that you're feeling judged, and that's never a nice feeling. You just wanted some information and, funny or not, you felt like people jumped all over you and made you feel stupid.

But calling "those" other women "b*tches" and saying you will "pray for their LO's"....  that doesn't feel judge-y to you????

buboo

Mrs.Hizzo:

OK, OP, seriously? You need to figure out where you stashed your sense of humor, because some of the responses to your post were flat-out funny. How could you not laugh at "my DH has recently learned to drive while RFing" and "We FF, but drive in reverse?" I don't even think anyone was judging you, more just making a comment on the hot-and-over-posted topic du' jour. You are WAY oversensitive if you're praying for people's children over this ridiculousness.

I completely agree, I went back and read the responses and they were funny, not mean. OP you might want to lurk more or visit the board more often, seriously. 

Tomkat8403

ChelleM:

I didn't intend to mock you in my response to your post about FF vs/ RF.

I was mocking all the people that are so CARAZEE about FF.

This.

Chrysallys

Sage Mommy:

I'm pretty sure "shut the fvck up" isn't part of the golden rule, but you may have a different version of the manual than I do.

 

My exact thoughts.

Nor is calling others b*tches. Fabulous example of Christianity right there

Ivana_Stolichnaya

fairychick77

Ivana.Stolichnaya:

Good call!

macchiatto

Mrs.Hizzo:

OK, OP, seriously? You need to figure out where you stashed your sense of humor, because some of the responses to your post were flat-out funny. How could you not laugh at "my DH has recently learned to drive while RFing" and "We FF, but drive in reverse?" I don't even think anyone was judging you, more just making a comment on the hot-and-over-posted topic du' jour. You are WAY oversensitive if you're praying for people's children over this ridiculousness.

Well said.

OCMom2be

Ivana.Stolichnaya:

BWAHAHAHA!

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