TTC After a Loss

So I gave in and bought some tests...just in case.

I really tried hard not to buy any, but I couldn't help it.  Now I just need someone to tell me not to use them.  I'm pretty convinced I'm not pregnant and part of me is starting to want to see the BFN so I'm not left wondering anymore.  Do you prefer to see a BFN first or just wait for AF to arrive?

Re: So I gave in and bought some tests...just in case.

  • How many DPO are you?  I usually wait until the day before AF is supposed to show up, then POAS - just my luck.  I hate seeing a BFN, but I can't help it!
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  • imageRawr08:
    How many DPO are you?  I usually wait until the day before AF is supposed to show up, then POAS - just my luck.  I hate seeing a BFN, but I can't help it!

    I'm on 13 dpo.  My luteal phase seems to be a bit longer since my m/c because it was a good 14.5 days before I even started spotting (always spot for a day or so before it "officially" starts).  I'm pretty sure I ovulated earlier in the day than usual, so I'll probably start spotting by early Thursday.  If I get a BFN tomorrow, I won't have to wait too long before AF arrives.

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  • I'm crazy. I usually POAS at approximately 10dpo and 12dpo. I don't even chart so even that is a guess based on CM/CP. So really it is totally and completely crazy and a waste of money, but seeing the negatives helps calm down the MF a bit. Well at least for 24 hours... haha. Good luck whichever way you decide!
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  • imagevinceandang:
    BFN. I'm terrible at waiting. Plus...I think I might be a poas-aholic. Embarrassed

    This is me too.

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  • oy

    my new years resolution for 2010 was to not pee on ANYTHING. (I asked DH what he would do if i peed on the floor and he said he'd kick me lol) 

    i broke it once for my bfp, carried to term (almost), had a live birth but lost baby anyway(FML) and and still trying SO hard to to break it again...even the AF is supposed to arrive today and I'm still no sign of her.

     

    NO PEEING for me!

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  • imageitsmegin:

    imagevinceandang:
    BFN. I'm terrible at waiting. Plus...I think I might be a poas-aholic. Embarrassed

    This is me too.

    Ditto!

    I start POAS at like 8DPO now - I didn't start until 10DPO last time and got my BFP the first day of testing, so now I've pretty much convinced myself that if I don't get anything by 10DPO then I'm out for that cycle. Sigh.

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  • I'm doing the same thing.  I keep thinking I could be pregnant so I better check.  I really need to stop spending money on these things.  I guess it's just always on our brain.

     

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