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DH sucks today.

Dh said the absolutely wrong thing to me tonight. He really hurt my feelings.

 I was changing and he said ... "wow, looks like you really gained some weight over thanksgiving"

what an a$$

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  • I literally just gasped. What a hurtful thing to say. Ugh! Sorry, girl!

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  • Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?



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  • Guys have NO CLUE!
  • They really don't get when they say sh!t like that that it hurts our feelings.  HUGS!!
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  • imageyoungin12:
    I literally just gasped. What a hurtful thing to say. Ugh! Sorry, girl!

    THIS!  All of it

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  • I'm sorry, that is terrible!  Sorry about CD 1 too.  :(
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  • I would be pissed too.  But, I think we all have gained weight this month.  It is that time of year.  Sometimes, men just don't know the right things to say!
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  • imagejesselayne8:

    Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?

    I sat on the couch and cried for a while. Then I went for a long walk. I didn't really talk to him again. :(

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  • OMG Fay! I'm so sorry hun!   (((hugs)))
  • Yikes! That was not cool on his part! I hope he knows that was not nice...
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  • You should walk over to him, look down his pants and say, "wow, I thought shrinkage only happened when you were in cold water!"

    Wink

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  • imageRhodyMomToBe:

    You should walk over to him, look down his pants and say, "wow, I thought shrinkage only happened when you were in cold water!"

    Wink

     

    Love this!  and make sure he thinks he's about to get some first. 

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  • imageRhodyMomToBe:

    You should walk over to him, look down his pants and say, "wow, I thought shrinkage only happened when you were in cold water!"

    Wink

    Yes

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  • imagefaydre:
    imagejesselayne8:

    Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?

    I sat on the couch and cried for a while. Then I went for a long walk. I didn't really talk to him again. :(

    Oh no sweetie.Right Hug



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  • omg I think I would have cried, sorry he said that to you!
  • and gabbly won't connect... so now i want to cry more.

     

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  • imagejesselayne8:

    Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?

    I hope she didn't say anything and just kicked him in the nuts instead! 

  • my husband said "what an asss " I think men just don't think sometimes. I am sorry.
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  • So sorry. Sometimes I think my husband is the biggest a-hole but I realize sometimes all husbands are huge a-holes. Hope your day gets better and he realizes what an awful thing to say that was.
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  • imageJuneButterfly85:
    imagejesselayne8:

    Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?

    I hope she didn't say anything and just kicked him in the nuts instead! 

    Ummm...I'm pretty sure she needs those nuts, so physical harm isn't really the best solution.

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  • imageRhodyMomToBe:
    imageJuneButterfly85:
    imagejesselayne8:

    Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?

    I hope she didn't say anything and just kicked him in the nuts instead! 

    Ummm...I'm pretty sure she needs those nuts, so physical harm isn't really the best solution.

    Good point.  Kick him in the shin then =P 

  • imagesiren0076:
    my husband said "what an asss " I think men just don't think sometimes. I am sorry.

    Yep, mine said "What an idiot!"

    I'm really sorry, Faydre. That was a very hurtful thing to say. ((hugs)) 

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  • I'm so sorry dear!

    If DH said something like that to me, he would be getting throat punched.

     

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    Did DH have a momentary lapse of complete sanity? Because if mine said that to me... he'd be sleeping on the couch. I don't think I'd ever let him live that down.

    You know, if you had gained a lot of weight suddenly and he was concerned, there's a nice way to approach that, but his comment seemed completely unnecessary!

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  • MEN!

    Fay I am sure you are gorgeous. *hugs*



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    MEN!

    Fay I am sure you are gorgeous. *hugs*

     Left Hug

    thanks! 

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  • Wow what a douche. I'm sorry he was so insensitive. I certainly hope he comes around and see how hurtful he was.
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  • Sometimes men can be so stupid!  Weight is never an issue for a man....or a woman for that matter, to bring up to a woman.  Angry
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  • Jaw drop. He should know better than to say that to his wife. Tsk tsk.
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    G.

    That's just wrong.  How horrible :(  I'm sorry.

  • imagetblauvelt:
    Jaw drop. He should know better than to say that to his wife. Tsk tsk.

    THIS. Sorry he had to say that :(

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  • DH said something like this to me once, trying to be cute and funny.  I walked right over to him and, very seriously, patted his belly and said "who's your new friend?".  Then walked away and didn't talk to him the rest of the day.  He's never said anything like that again and he better not!
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  • imageyoungin12:
    I literally just gasped. What a hurtful thing to say. Ugh! Sorry, girl!

    I did too!! What an idiot! :( Doesn't matter how much we all grow up, sometimes boys are still just stupid. I hope you told him how you felt, hun. My DH has screwed up in saying stuff like that before, and I've found that if I don't say anything he's totally oblivious but very apologetic if I speak up.

  • Oh Fay :(  I am sorry!!!  I don't think men think sometimes.  Big huge hugs and please remember that you, my dear, are beautiful. 

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  • aww fay Surprise men don't think..sorry about that Sad
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  • :( They just don't get it sometimes.
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