Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?
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I would be pissed too. But, I think we all have gained weight this month. It is that time of year. Sometimes, men just don't know the right things to say!
Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?
I sat on the couch and cried for a while. Then I went for a long walk. I didn't really talk to him again.
Oh no sweetie.
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So sorry. Sometimes I think my husband is the biggest a-hole but I realize sometimes all husbands are huge a-holes. Hope your day gets better and he realizes what an awful thing to say that was.
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Did DH have a momentary lapse of complete sanity? Because if mine said that to me... he'd be sleeping on the couch. I don't think I'd ever let him live that down.
You know, if you had gained a lot of weight suddenly and he was concerned, there's a nice way to approach that, but his comment seemed completely unnecessary!
DH said something like this to me once, trying to be cute and funny. I walked right over to him and, very seriously, patted his belly and said "who's your new friend?". Then walked away and didn't talk to him the rest of the day. He's never said anything like that again and he better not!
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I literally just gasped. What a hurtful thing to say. Ugh! Sorry, girl!
I did too!! What an idiot! Doesn't matter how much we all grow up, sometimes boys are still just stupid. I hope you told him how you felt, hun. My DH has screwed up in saying stuff like that before, and I've found that if I don't say anything he's totally oblivious but very apologetic if I speak up.
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Ouch that hurts. Sorry Fay. What did you say back?
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THIS! All of it
I sat on the couch and cried for a while. Then I went for a long walk. I didn't really talk to him again.
You should walk over to him, look down his pants and say, "wow, I thought shrinkage only happened when you were in cold water!"
Love this! and make sure he thinks he's about to get some first.
Oh no sweetie.
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#1 born December 2011
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#2 born May 2013
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#3 born August 2015
#4!!!!!!! due June 2017
and gabbly won't connect... so now i want to cry more.
I hope she didn't say anything and just kicked him in the nuts instead!
Ummm...I'm pretty sure she needs those nuts, so physical harm isn't really the best solution.
Good point. Kick him in the shin then =P
Yep, mine said "What an idiot!"
I'm really sorry, Faydre. That was a very hurtful thing to say. ((hugs))
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I'm so sorry dear!
If DH said something like that to me, he would be getting throat punched.
WHAAAAAH????!?!?!?!?
Did DH have a momentary lapse of complete sanity? Because if mine said that to me... he'd be sleeping on the couch. I don't think I'd ever let him live that down.
You know, if you had gained a lot of weight suddenly and he was concerned, there's a nice way to approach that, but his comment seemed completely unnecessary!
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Fay I am sure you are gorgeous. *hugs*
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That's just wrong. How horrible I'm sorry.
THIS. Sorry he had to say that
I did too!! What an idiot! Doesn't matter how much we all grow up, sometimes boys are still just stupid. I hope you told him how you felt, hun. My DH has screwed up in saying stuff like that before, and I've found that if I don't say anything he's totally oblivious but very apologetic if I speak up.
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Oh Fay I am sorry!!! I don't think men think sometimes. Big huge hugs and please remember that you, my dear, are beautiful.
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