Do you have a "hoping for a BFP by..." date?

Mattel

DH and I are hoping to GP by our birthdays in March. I'll be 27 and he'll be 31 and we both always wanted to start having kids earlier. I'm hoping this is possible given the fact that I'm diabetic so it makes things tricky for me and DH is gone for work Mon-Fri usually.

Whitbell

By Jan.  I have to start seeing a RE and get on Femera.

Azrayla

Hoping..uh..Asap..But if not def by april I believe late april I'd be EDD dec 30..Would love an xmas baby

caroline:)

Actually it was this month. We started trying in July, and hoped that I would be pregnant by November so I could have an August due date. It was my due date last time and I wanted it again. I *might* be able to squeak in at the end of the month but I don't have high hopes about it.

tbRNhb

that's funny you say your 27th birthday i always said the same so that makes my date of hoping for that BFP by december 31st. I am supposed to start AF 12/24 so maybe that will be the day i will wait to test if she doesn't show up good luck to you

blueyes657

I am hoping by the end of September 2011. That will be a year of trying and hopefully we wont have to wait that long!!!!

LauraElizabeth85

I would love to get my BFP in December! Otherwise, March is my "mental health deadline"

brookelynpaisley

Yeah. 6 months ago.

I'd love to be pregnant by my 30th birthday in June. Or better yet, by our 1-year TTC mark in April. I'd love to not have to go to an RE.

tink7227

If we don't get a BFP either this cycle or the next our insurance changes before the delivery of the baby.  We'll still keep trying of course, but the cost of having the baby would Skyrocket!! It's not a end all be all date, but more a crossing everything possible date.

amandaloren

Yep...it was last month. Now I'm just hoping, no date in mind.

XXXXX222

January 2008. Oh well. New plan. Let's go with January 2011! Yeah baby!

dominicsmamma

This month was my "hope" I would love a August baby. But def by March.

Fianschneid

I'm hoping for March or earlier. I don't want to have to deal with the third trimester while walking around the icy Chicago streets January through March of next year.

Of course, I'll take it when I can get it.

jesselayne8

Mine was 4 months ago.  I wanted to deliever before my 30th bday.  Now I guess I want to get KU before my 30th birthday in April.

Jewlz018

yesterday...lol

I've had multiple dates come and pass.  At this point I am just hoping for a BFP period. 

Nicoley22

Well we were hoping that November would have been the month so that we could still have a summer baby but really we'd just like it to happen asap.  Would be nice to get one for Christmas though

jchanth

Mine is by Jan. If i were able to choose i'd have a baby by sept so it's still somewhat warm and it usually starts getting pretty cool in oct here. With that being said, i won't stop trying and i'll take it as soon as it comes! 

Mattel

ttlockows:

that's funny you say your 27th birthday i always said the same so that makes my date of hoping for that BFP by december 31st. I am supposed to start AF 12/24 so maybe that will be the day i will wait to test if she doesn't show up good luck to you

That would be one heck of a Christmas gift "Merry Christmas, here's your BFP!!"

Bubs101

8 months ago would have been nice. MH has an SA scheduled for next Friday. If I don't get my BFP, we're moving forward with that. So...yeah, I guess next week is my "deadline" date.

Actingdiva09

At first I wanted to be PG before my birthday. From then until now it has been ASAP. Right now especially, b/c I've been talking with another friend and she was huge pregnant in the winter and she's really tall (like me) and had issues finding pants that fit her, so me having an EDD in August or September would be ideal! So this month or next, but I'd LOVE to tell my family at Christmas!

cutie9621

I really want an October Baby like me, preferably before my birthdayso I can be 29 so I think that gives us a couple of months. LOL. I'm hoping that since my husband's family and my family is super fertle that we will get lucky but we will see. I am 9 DPO now, It would be great if it were this month and we had an August baby!

psychgirl33

Late Oct-Early Dec or Late March-April due date would be awesome because I would get extra maternity leave (Xmas or summer break).  But I'm not really that picky.  I would really like to be K'dU by March, but you just never know how it will go...

homediva

Just as soon as possible. We started trying in July, and said if by January nothing had happened, we'd go for check-ups. I didn't realize January would come so soon. 

MySweetBaboo

When we first started trying, I was hoping to get pregnant in January 2010 for another October baby.  It was awesome having the rest of the year off. 

Now I am hoping for a December 2010 bfp or a January 2011 bfp because I really don't want to have to go in for tests and I'll be 36 in a few weeks. EEK!

buttercup1221

Well our date has kinda come and gone... we did get a BFP after 8 months of trying and it was perfect timing with our move/holidays and everything coming up but after our m/c, now we're just hoping for a BFP period.

StephK

Every month?  I knew it could take a while to get the timing right, but it honestly never occurred to me when we started in April that I might not be pregnant by Christmas.  I know, if this isn't our cycle, it will hit me very, very hard.

Since I turn the dreaded 35 in February, I really, really hope I get the BFP before I hit that date!

psychgirl33

LegalPawn:

Mattel:

DH and I are hoping to GP by our birthdays in March. I'll be 27 and he'll be 31 and we both always wanted to start having kids earlier. I'm hoping this is possible given the fact that I'm diabetic so it makes things tricky for me and DH is gone for work Mon-Fri usually.

We're in pretty much the same boat, except DH was hoping I'd be KU by January because he turns 31 in Dec, and I'm 27 in Feb.  I told him it's probably unlikely since we just recently started TTC.  He's all freaked out that he's going to be "old" when his kids are teenagers.  Personally, I'd hope that we are KU by this summer.

 Ha!  Must be common ages to be trying   My fiance is 32 and I just turned 28.  I think he's a little worried about being old, but I'm not worried.  My mom was in her early 30's when she adopted me and mid 30's when she had my brother and I never thought of her as that old.

ccam

I was hoping for one 6 months ago!  But I'm just hoping we don't hit that one year mark.  ASAP would be nice 

steff13914

brookelynpaisley:

Yeah. 6 months ago.

I'd love to be pregnant by my 30th birthday in June. Or better yet, by our 1-year TTC mark in April. I'd love to not have to go to an RE.

moosegal

I'll be 30 in July and hope to be KTFU before then. The hope to deliver before my 30th birthday didn't really pan out...

steff13914

Bubs101:

8 months ago would have been nice. MH has an SA scheduled for next Friday. If I don't get my BFP, we're moving forward with that. So...yeah, I guess next week is my "deadline" date.

Good luck Bubs! I'm crossing my fingers for great results

bets1009

Hoping for Christmas or definitely by February! My birthday is Jan and DH is Feb so it would be a wonderful present!

bjbrock

Not really a date in mind, I just really didn't want them closer than 2 years apart and if I got pregnant this month I'd be due just a few days before DD1's 2nd bday which is close enough lol. After that I don't really care though. Ideally I want them 2.5 years apart. Since it took me 7 months to get pregnant last time, I went off BC with that time frame in mind, so if it takes 7 months again that will put them almost right at 2.5 years apart. I know it won't necessarily take that long this time but I'm ok with it happening sooner too

JSRICH

Yeah, march 14, 2009.
no but seriously, I really wanted to get pregnant this month because it marks our one year of trying. Plus it's christmas and that would be awesome.

Moose2000

We had wanted the baby to be born in the summer, so this month/december was kinda it.

 Now, my sister is getting married next december so I was hoping to have a baby before that. I certainly dont want to go into labor during the ceremony  So that would give me until about February.  BUT - either way, all we want is a happy, healthy baby! 

emandbry522

Friday is the end of my 2WW, so I'm hoping for a BFP!!!

If not, I'm going to take a break from charting and TTC next cycle and start fresh on the one after that. I'm definatly going re read TCOYF next cycle to make sure I have all my bases covered.

loveypants

Yes, my hoping for a bfp by was August 2009.  So much for that.

vnstanley25

I was hoping to be pregnant by this December when we started last October, I thought that was reachable since we have a DD and we knew it took us awhile to make a baby now that we are at that mark it's sort of shakin' me a bit.

In the end when we get it we get, of course hoping for sooner than later.

Temp878586125009588

I did, but now I'm just hoping for a BFP, and if I don't get it by April I'll be calling for an appointment...

tlalli7106

April or May would be great...DH is deploying soon after that and it would give him time to come back for the last few months of the pregnancy and the birth!

tbRNhb

Mattel:

ttlockows:

that's funny you say your 27th birthday i always said the same so that makes my date of hoping for that BFP by december 31st. I am supposed to start AF 12/24 so maybe that will be the day i will wait to test if she doesn't show up good luck to you

That would be one heck of a Christmas gift "Merry Christmas, here's your BFP!!"

thanks and i hope you're right...AF ruined Thanksgiving so here's hoping she's not what Santa is leaving under my tree. Everytime it happens around a bad time i think of that commercial ...you know the one with the lady with red package. haha anyhow good luck to you for your bfp before march