I'm really hating my job and there's NO WAY I can stay here (or in this field) for the next 30yrs. I hate the field I have my degree in
I don't need to make a ton of money, dh does pretty well but I still want to work.
Thing is, I'm stuck at this shiteous job and away from my baby for 45hrs/week, I want to spend more time with her.
What do you all do if you have a job with flexible hours??
Re: If you have a job you like or is flexibile, what do you do?
I have a job with somewhat flexible hours, but I do have to be at work at 7am and the rest of the time is flexible. I work in the accounting field, as an Accounting Admin. I also assist the HR Manager as time permits.
I have friends that have very flexible schedules and work at home as medical transcriptionists. You might want to look at that.
I do medical billing. I also keep the stats for the Cath Lab I work at. I work 3 days in the office and one day at home. 32 hours total. I usually get to work around 7:00 and leave around 2:00. The rest of the work is done at home when the baby sleeps or is at the sitter.
Honestly, I just lucked into it. I have a great relationship with my boss. I am the only person in the lab that does what I do. I discussed my plan to cut my hours and work from home shortly after I told them I was pregnant. Luckily, a lot of the medical billing staff at the hospital work from home so it's something that is pretty common here.
I work in HR as a compensation analyst. (We basically administer the company pay programs, annual increase process, and evaluate jobs to find out their internal/external worth.) My job is pretty flexible. If I need to work from home, my boss is fine with it. I work 9 hour days, 9 days in a pay period, so I have every other Friday off to have more time with DS.
I actually switched jobs/employers when DS was 6 months. Best decision I could have made. In my last job they let me work 7:30 - 4:30 for daycare pick-up purposes, but I always felt like leaving before 5 was held against me. And I think they expected everyone to put their job first over their family or home life or whatever. (I think they assumed that having a family meant I wasn't "engaged," so they started rated my performace lower after I got PG and then after I had DS. My manager actually told me in a performance review that I needed to decide if work or my family was more important. They should be lucky I didn't file an EEOC claim...) I also used to work from home at night a lot, and I rarely have done that in my new job. The job change was a huge positive change. DH noticed a difference right away.
It's hard to change jobs/employers/occupations, but if it will make you happier and give you more time with your LO, I say go for it! This is what I told my last employer in my exit interview: My son won't understand how much money I make (at least until he's a teenager and money matters more), but he will know/remember how much time I spend/spent with him. No job is worth sacrificing time with my family - they come first.
GL!!
I'm an Executive/Personal Assistant. I have flexible hours because my boss is freaking awesome.
I work for a chapter 13 bankruptcy trustee. It's a desk job. My primary focus is receiving the proof of claim forms but I do some other things, as well. I work 37-1/2 hours a week (8:30-5:00) and every other Friday we get a half day. It's a salaried position so we get our full pay even if he lets us leave at noon. We also get to leave early on Fridays if it's not our half day, usually 3:00 or 3:30 so I LOVE it. It's very flexible... we can take our lunch breaks whenever we want. If we need to leave for a doc's appointment, we can just make the time up whenever, as long as we do it within a reasonable amount of time. It's pretty much all the honor system though. There's no time sheets or anything like that. I am just lucky that I work for the trustee I work for because they are not all like that but they are independent contractors with the bankruptcy court so they can run their offices how they want to... as long as everything is caught up and things get done. I really enjoy it... very casual atmosphere. And no, the pay isn't fabulous or anything but the flexibility and free benefits are so worth it (although I'm switching to DH's medical insurance next year due to some changes with ours).
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Used to work in retail management and loved the flexibility of that job, but you kind of have to work into that position and start on the bottom, which is crappy. It took me about 5 years until I was managing my own store/setting schedule/etc. And it's not the kind of flexibility most people want b/c I usually worked 4-6 weekend days a month, but had time off during the week or days I went in at 1 and worked until 9 or 10PM.
Now I work in banking, in a branch setting currently as a service manager. I eventually hope to move into a corporate/back office position (my employer's headquarters are here). I love it, and if by flexible you mean my boss doesn't mind of I shorten my lunch breaks and take off early on Friday, or getting an afternoon or morning off for LO's appt is no problem, then it's flexible, but my scheduled hours are 8:30-5:30 M-F, more or less. I love my job, love weekends and holidays off, love my PTO and health benefits. Love that the mall is 2 miles away in one direction, Target is 2 miles away in the other, and there is an Indian lunch buffet within walking distance. OK, lovefest over. I need to actually do some work now.
i'm a paralegal .. the hrs aren't as rigorous as an attorney and the hourly requirements aren't nearly as brutal.
i'm a technical writer. its a boring job BUT its very flexible. i work in the office mon/wed/fri 730-noon and do the rest from home. when my kids are older, i will go into the office more often but its nice to have a job that can be done at midnight on a sunday, if that is when i want to work.
Before I was laid off I was in advertising sales. The hours were 8:30 to 5, but we could be in the office as much or little as we wanted, we didn't have to tell our manager where we were going. Other than that we could be out on sales calls. We got an hour for lunch and could run errands or go to appts. whenever we needed to. Many people left around 3 or 4 if they were at goal and were "done" for the day.
We had goals and had to make them to make commission, but it was a pretty sweet gig.