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I don't want to be back here...

grover52grover52
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This is my third loss.  I was so confident about this one.  We went in for an ultrasound on Monday the 22nd and there was no heartbeat.  We were at 10 weeks. We had 2 previous ultrasounds at 6 weeks and 8 weeks and everything looked good, this ultrasound was scheduled for at 10 weeks for peace of mind since my last mc was around 10 weeks. I had no bleeding or signs of trouble and was in complete shock when there was no heartbeat. 

I had a d&c on Tuesday and due to a large cyst that was a consistantly coming back, they also removed my ovary and tube.  They took blood from myself and my husband to start running tests to see if we can try and pinpoint the problem for the future, but I don't know if I can do this again.

I am so sorry for all of the losses experienced by all the women on this board.  While it helps to know we are not alone, it is horrible to see the vast number of women who have been so much pain and anguish.

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  • IslandEnchantressIslandEnchantress
    I am so sorry for your loss! My T&P are with you.
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  • tdmd09tdmd09 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope the testing gives you some answers, or at least some peace. I wish you all the best during this difficult time.
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  • mrs.geemrs.gee member
    I'm so sorry for your losses and the loss of your ovary & tube.  I am also down one ovary & tube from a cyst when I was in high school.  I hope your recovery is quick and that you get some answers.
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  • TigerFanTigerFan
    I am so sorry for you losses.  Thoughts and prayers for you as you heal.
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  • dana1318adana1318a
    I am so, so sorry for your losses.
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  • MrsR25MrsR25
    I'm so sorry for your losses.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss
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  • CakesABakeCakesABake

    Crying I don't even know what to say. I wish I could help in some way or at least console you.

    I am very sorry that this is your 3rd time! We lost our baby at 8 months along (thinking everything was fine) I hope that the doctors can help you. 

    ((HUGS)) btw therapy does help (we are going monthly) 

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  • PachitaPachita member
    So sorry for your losses!! ((HUGS))

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  • GaberinosGaberinos
    I am also very sorry for your losses and that you had to go through this. I hope that the blood work will help give you guys some answers. I have only had one miscarriage, but I just wanted to let you know that we are all here for you. I have a friend that had multiple miscarriages and I know how tough it was for her. Hang in there!
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    I am so sorry. I wish there were words to make it better.

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