I just PCSed to NC from Alaska this year. 4 months after we got here I found out I was pregnant (yay!). I had never considered having a baby shower bc our families (me/DH) are not close (distance) at all. We've also lost touch with most of our "childhood friends" since joining the Coast Guard.
With that being said, everyone at work is asking me when we are having our shower. I've told them that i'm not having one and they all say I NEED to have a shower and that I NEED to invite everyone from work (I work with ALL men). I feel like I would be gift grubbing if I did that because i'm not particularly close with any of them.
Now i'm confused and don't know what to do. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? If so, what did you do?
FYI: I would not be hosting it myself.