We are planning to do this because we find out at my high risk ultrasound on Dec 7th. Last time, my mom and MIL were there when we found out. Since no one can attend this one (I'm thankful for this rule now), we'll do a gender reveal party that night at our house.
I'm praying for a healthy baby, but of course if something is wrong, we'll still have the party but more for support. I hope everything works out well! I can't wait to see how the party turns out. I'll take a video and share it here after the party :-)
If you've never seen this, go here: https://allyrey.blogspot.com/2010/04/photog-couple-finds-out-gender-of-their.html