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Angry I'm going to miss the GTG! grrrr (whining mentioned)

HugginAngelHugginAngel
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

So my cousin claims that my grandfather is piiiiiiiiiiiiissssed off that he never got an 85th b-day party. Mind  you we see my grandparents once a week or every other week and they've never said a word. Maybe because Dh and I went over there and brought him a "legal" cake (he's a diabetic and just had heart surgery and likes to eat things he's not allowed) sooooooooooooo now my cousin has decided that she's throwing him a b-day party. His birthday was in FREAKIN AUGUST!!! And when did she plan it for buuuuuuut the 14th of November....really?!?! So between that and DH having to do a bus trip the one thing I've looked forward to I can't even go to. I just wish people would do shiiiiiiiiiit when they were supposed to and then not assume everyone can just go because they feel guilty. My parents and DH and I were the only ones who went to see him for his b-day it's not my fault she couldn't get off her arse to go see him!!!! but now I'll have major guilt if I don't go.

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Re: Angry I'm going to miss the GTG! grrrr (whining mentioned)

  • jamilynn9jamilynn9 member

    That does suck.  You're right, she's trying to make up for her guilt.  What an inconvenience to you though for the quick planning.  I hope you at least have a good time there.  FWIW, I'm missing the gtg for something great that I'm excited to do and it still irritates me  that I can't meet everyone.

    ETA:  Oops, I just realized I posted on the 6+ board.  I guess I clicked on  the wrong link.   ::Hopping back over the fence.::  Sorry

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  • damabo80damabo80 member

    Well, if the 14th was going to be the only time you see him in a month or more, then I would say go to the bday party.

    Buuuuut, since you see him every week, and you went over to his house and brough a cake for his (actual) bday, I wouldn't feel guilt over missing this one event.

    I think over the age of 16, we should lose the ability to feel sorry for ourselves if no one throws us a birthday party.

    GTG ahoy!


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  • rjl07rjl07
    I think that day wasn't good for Butterfly anyway so let's just pick a different day that works for everyone.   I have a baby shower that I would love to get out of on December 5th...just a thought... 
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  • HugginAngelHugginAngel
    That works for me if it's okay for everyone else!!
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