Hello!
My husband and I are moving to Durham this weekend and I am so worried about which doctor to choose. I was hoping to deliver at the birthing center in Chapel Hill, however they are just too popular and don't have any room. I would like the option to have a water birth, in addition to a few more preferences such as my husband being involved in the actual delivery and the cord not being cut asap. I know home birth is probably my best option, but this being our first child, I am not sure if I'm ready for that. Also, should something go wrong I would never hear the end of it from my mom. I am still going to look into that route, because, among other reasons, I do feel strongly that the environment a woman labors in affects the labor greatly, but even if we committed to a home birth, I would like to know what my "back-up" hospitals are like.
So, Triangle moms, what are the hospitals like? Do any of them allow for water births, or are the jacuzzis just for laboring in? Is there a maternity ward that is hands-off and would let our midwife make all the calls (as long as the baby is safe)? Any suggestions on a midwife?
Thank you so much for any help, there's just so much out there I'm getting flustered.
Re: Hospital Water Birth in the Triangle?
I think your best bet is going to be with the Midwives at UNC Chapel Hill. I've known several people that have delivered with them and they've been pretty happy with the experience.
I don't know whether they allow water birth, but they'll be hands-off if that's what you want. I know one friend who delivered there and she spent a lot of her time laboring in the shower, on a birth ball.
If you decide to go with a home birth, I can give you the names of some midwives to contact.
When are you due?
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I will definitely check them out. I'm due Feb. 2, so I guess I have some time, but not much.
Thanks!!
I am actually a L+D nurse at UNC. Our midwives are awesome! We do not allow water births but a lot of women spend a lot of time laboring in the shower/tub. I delivered there and labored a while in the shower. it helped alot! The midwives are very hands off and are very open to birth plans and helping you have the birth experience that you desire. It sounds like they would be a good fit for you from what you described.
If you have any questions, just let me know!