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Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

New to this board...Intro

Hello,

I recently lost my unborn son he expired in the womb due to a placental abruption from complications from HELLP syndrome. (I literally had no earlier symptoms and developed HELLP overnight) (I was 8 months)

 I had to be in ICU for 3 days after my emergency C-section and in recovery 3 days after that. 

I miss my baby, and I wanted him so badly. My husband and I have been going to therapy to help us deal with this situation. We were so ready to be parents. We are both devastated. 

We have talked about TTC again in Dec/Jan since the OB told us to give my body time to heal properly. We also visited with a Maternal Fetal Medicine Specialist who thoroughly explained everything to us. 

I cannot believe that I almost died the night I lost our baby...I held him and he was perfect. I loved him so much ((tears in eyes right now))...I am trying to be as strong as I possibly can. 

I hope that I can find advice and support from you ladies. I am sorry to be a downer in my first post, feel free to share your stories with me, and your journey. I also joined the TTCAL board. 

God bless and good luck everyone. 

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and your own physically harrowing journey. I hope you recover physically very fast and that the emotional recovery goes smoothly as well. Feel free to vent here... no post is too much of a downer. ((HUGS))
    BFP#1 9/14/10 (EDD 5/21/11); no fetal pole 6w6d, 7w4d, d&c 10/8
    BFP#2 3/16/11, beta 138; 4/12 Baby/HB DS born 9/10/11 at 29w4d due to partial abruption and PTL
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    BFP#3 8/19/13 Another boy! 17P, modified bedrest and Nifedipine helped us have a termie! DS2 born 4/19/14 at 38w5d.
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  • Agree with PP, this is what we are here for.  I am so sorry for your loss.  *hugs*  I hope that you will find some comfort from this board.  It has helped me immensely.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I am dealing with the recent loss of my daughter and I can understand how you feel. I think therapy can be such a wonderful thing and my DH and I are starting next week. I'm actually really lokking forward to it. Please feel free to vent about anything and everything here. I have found these women to be some of the kindest women I have ever known and there is always someone on this board willing to give a pep talk when you need it :) Feel free to PM me if you would like. I hope your physical and emotional healing goes along as quickly as it can. My T&P and (((HUGS))) are with you and DH.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. The girls here are very supportive.
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