We have 2 beautiful boys, and I would like to have a 3rd child. DH was on board for 3 kids when we got married, but now that life is different 2 kids and 6 years later, he isn't sure about #3. I'd like to start TTC in April of next year, but DH isn't sure we can afford maternity leave a 3rd time. That would be a long way away, and we can start saving up for it now. Also, we thought that DS#2 had Down Syndrome, and it was an agonizing month of amnios and waiting for results. Everything turned out fine, but it was the most stressful month of our lives! I think that really is the reason he is wavering on baby #3. I think the money thing is just a way of avoiding the real reason. He is scared. So am I, but I guess I trust in God having a plan for us. You know? Anyway, did you have to talk DH into it, or was he on board from the start? Thanks!
Baby #1: 19 cycles, failed IUI, and 1 + IVF 3-5-07
Baby #2: 12 cycles, 1 failed FET, natural miracle but m/c at 9 weeks then another natural miracle that stuck! 9-30-09