With my last two I had REALLY bad experiences with the epidurals.
With my first son the epidural wore off at 8cm and WOULD NOT give me any more. With my second son it took them 30 minutes to find the "spot" and they shocked me! Only to find that as soon as they found the spot and I laid back it was time to deliver so they never "turned it on".
With this Baby I want to try everything possible except the epidural. ie: Water Birth, other IV drugs (maybe) and breathing. Is there any class that someone could recommend taking before baby is born? My husband is a total baby when it comes to me being in pain.
Re: Natural Chld Birth....
In addition to the two that PP mentioned, there's also Hypnobabies which is what I'm doing. If your husband has a hard time seeing you in pain, then the best route might be Bradley. They teach husband-led coaching and it might help him to be a big part of you pain management efforts.
I had an epi that didn't take initially and had to be reset as well. For weeks after birth, my back ached at the insertion point. I hope to avoid an epi at all costs this time around. GL to you!
I am doing the hypnobabies home study course and hiring a doula.
The Bradley Method is great from what DH and I have read/studied so far. The classes are 12 weeks long though so you do need to sign up early. We don't have any classes in our area but have the Bradley workbook and "Husband Coached Childbirth" book and feel confident that it's preparing us as well as the class. We also took a class that our hospital offered which gave other breathing/position techniques, etc. Hope this helps!