For all medical, dental and vision court order is 50% each parent. My husband takes the kids to all their appointments. We haven't told bmom about us paying extras...we just have been paying it because she is having major financial problems and the kids are the ones who pay the consequences in the end when she doesn't cover their needs. My question is, in the court order it does not give a timeframe of when bills must be submitted to the other parent or when it must be paid. How long do you think we would have to tell her about them and request payment of 50%? We don't plan to do this at all, but if she does something crazy, we'd consider it.