DS eats around 7pm then 9pm & maybe 11 before his 4 hr stretch. DH usually does the 9 & maybe the 11. But he likes to watch TV the whole time. But we sort of agreed that from 8p on it was "bedtime" & we'd keep lights off when possible & no noise. DS has been fussy btw 9-11 & I think it's b/c DH goofs off too much & doesn't feed him & put him right back to bed. Which wakes him up more & makes him cranky.
Re: What time does "bedtime/nighttime" start for LO?
We start at around 8pm, but depending on how sleeping was during the day, sometimes it starts as late as 10. I turn down the lights, give him a warm bath and a massage, then he gets swaddled and has his 4th or 5th supper (he eats like a fiend in the evenings!), then I place him on my chest and pat his back for burping, and he almost always fall asleep like that. He's usually asleep within an hour of starting our routine, and he'll be out for about 3 hours when he wakes for dessert and we do a diaper change (he's always dirty), then reswaddle, feed, burp and sleep, and that cycle continues all night.
It really upsets me when DH gets loud with him at night because it really wakes him up and gets him stimulated and it makes him harder to get to sleep. But, that's how DH bonds with him, so I don't complain. I just try to make sure DH spends his time with DS earlier in the evening.
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