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attyalice

hey:)  I saw your post yesterday about getting AF.  I just wanted to say that DH and I are in the same position.  We had to decide if we wanted 2 and would wait until H was 18 months... or to try now to fit in 3.  In general, we want to focus our resources on 2 and think we can financially meet their needs better.  also, my sister has 3... and though I love them and couldn't live without them... it is sometimes chaos.  I love the idea that with 2 we can always divide and conquer with each of us taking charge of one..... more one on one for each child... which I think is important.

Just thought I would check in to let you know that other people are in the same place... here's hoping healthy #2's come along for us when we want.... because our girls will make awesome big sisters:)