NBR: Is this weird...

saturdaynightdoubletree

Ok, so obviously it is weird in itself that I have noticed this and am actually taking the time to think about it.

SIL hasn't talked to me in 3 months. She got in another fight with DH 2 weeks ago and hasn't talked to him since. I received her baby shower invite, but it's a week before my due date... so I RSVP'd to her SIL, and sent a gift. The gift was delivered today via UPS, but dropped off on her front step (I hate when they do that). Now I'm wondering whether or not she got it, but I know we won't be getting a phone call, e-mail, text, or thank you. With all that said my shutterfly account is password protected, and I am able to see when each one of my added members looks at the site... she has been on twice in the last 24 hours, and at least twice a week before that... but had completely stopped looking at the site for two months.

What's her deal? She obviously wants some sort of connection if she's looking at the site that much... right? Should I just try reaching out for the 8 millionth time? Or keep giving space until she apologizes or tries talking to me again?

Shayna0182

I would just give her space.  It sounds like she's about to reach out to you, and it's very sweet you bought her a gift.  If she apologizes, then accept it and move on, but I would make her make the first move.