I rarely do these, but - FFFC

VampyAuthor

I'm so tired of being judged.

Judged because DH and I are TTC.

Between being called crazy (which, ok, I think we're a little nuts too, wanting to try so early.) but, greedy and selfish? Are you kidding me?

I was told we were greedy because we already have one baby. And selfish because there are couples in this wourld desprately wanting a baby and haven't had one yet. How ridiculous.

And, how everyone found out irks me even more. An airman over heard a conversation (actually she admitted to listening purposely to our little chat) between myself and my great friend out here. She then in turn not only told me that we were greedy but she went and told everybody she could think of.

She's young and dumb and right now I want throat punch her.

CalMum_Momma

I've never heard of a rule that you can't try to have another LO, because someone else hasn't had theirs yet. That's ridiculous! People can be such morons, plus she's a Biatch for telling everyone your buisness!!!

ashleydressing

Is she possibly jealous because she wants a baby and cannot have one?

madeleines_mommy

Being jealous is no reason to treat her that way or say those things.  If she's jealous in needs to keep it to herself.

VampyAuthor

ashleydressing:

Is she possibly jealous because she wants a baby and cannot have one?

Not sure. She's young. I thought she was 20...I found out she's about to turn 19. She does have a boyfriend/fiance. I'm not sure what he is, but I know they're together. But, it just p*sses me off she went and told the entire office we're trying for number 2 when the only one I wanted to know was my friend that I was telling.

ashleydressing

madeleines_mommy:

Being jealous is no reason to treat her that way or say those things.  If she's jealous in needs to keep it to herself.

I dont think that is a reason to treat her that way either I was just wondering if there was some motivation behind her doing it.

ABColeslaw

It doesn't sound like shes a very good friend.  How you plan your family is your business and having more than one child does not make you selfish or greedy. 

VampyAuthor

ashleydressing:

madeleines_mommy:

Being jealous is no reason to treat her that way or say those things.  If she's jealous in needs to keep it to herself.

I dont think that is a reason to treat her that way either I was just wondering if there was some motivation behind her doing it.

Not sure. To be honest that was my first weekend meeting her as the new airman in our office.

Hot Sauce on a Stick

MrsJazzAirForceWife:

ashleydressing:

madeleines_mommy:

Being jealous is no reason to treat her that way or say those things.  If she's jealous in needs to keep it to herself.

I dont think that is a reason to treat her that way either I was just wondering if there was some motivation behind her doing it.

Not sure. To be honest that was my first weekend meeting her as the new airman in our office.

Are you active duty? Maybe she's irked because another baby will mean a different job for you?

(I'm not saying what she said or is doing is right. You are in no way greedy or selfish for wanting another baby. But, my eyes have been opened in the past few months working with the military and some people actualy do feel that way. Some people do get pregnant just so they won't be deployed, etc. Again, I know you're not that kind of person, but, if she's young and an idiot....)

VampyAuthor

HotSauceonaStick:

MrsJazzAirForceWife:

ashleydressing:

madeleines_mommy:

Being jealous is no reason to treat her that way or say those things.  If she's jealous in needs to keep it to herself.

I dont think that is a reason to treat her that way either I was just wondering if there was some motivation behind her doing it.

Not sure. To be honest that was my first weekend meeting her as the new airman in our office.

Are you active duty? Maybe she's irked because another baby will mean a different job for you?

(I'm not saying what she said or is doing is right. You are in no way greedy or selfish for wanting another baby. But, my eyes have been opened in the past few months working with the military and some people actualy do feel that way. Some people do get pregnant just so they won't be deployed, etc. Again, I know you're not that kind of person, but, if she's young and an idiot....)

No, DH is the AD Air Force. I'm just a DoD civilian who works in the same office as her.

VampyAuthor

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MrsJazzAirForceWife:

HotSauceonaStick:

MrsJazzAirForceWife:

ashleydressing:

madeleines_mommy:

Being jealous is no reason to treat her that way or say those things.  If she's jealous in needs to keep it to herself.

I dont think that is a reason to treat her that way either I was just wondering if there was some motivation behind her doing it.

Not sure. To be honest that was my first weekend meeting her as the new airman in our office.

Are you active duty? Maybe she's irked because another baby will mean a different job for you?

(I'm not saying what she said or is doing is right. You are in no way greedy or selfish for wanting another baby. But, my eyes have been opened in the past few months working with the military and some people actualy do feel that way. Some people do get pregnant just so they won't be deployed, etc. Again, I know you're not that kind of person, but, if she's young and an idiot....)

No, DH is the AD Air Force. I'm just a DoD civilian who works in the same office as her.

Wow. Then I have no idea. I try and give people liek that (especially so young) the benefit of the doubt and think "Why would they be acting this way?" but there's nothing else that comes to mind.

She's an idiot.

And you are an amazig mommy who deserves 10 babies (if you want them).

Timeg

We heard similar things when we landed a surprise second pregnancy last year. It's silly.

 Now all I hear is, "you better not be pregnant again - you DO know what causes it, right?"

 

ablou

Tell her to leave her crazypants in the closet tomorrow. You don't need that kind of foolishness in your life.

VampyAuthor

HotSauceonaStick:

MrsJazzAirForceWife:

HotSauceonaStick:

MrsJazzAirForceWife:

ashleydressing:

madeleines_mommy:

Being jealous is no reason to treat her that way or say those things.  If she's jealous in needs to keep it to herself.

I dont think that is a reason to treat her that way either I was just wondering if there was some motivation behind her doing it.

Not sure. To be honest that was my first weekend meeting her as the new airman in our office.

Are you active duty? Maybe she's irked because another baby will mean a different job for you?

(I'm not saying what she said or is doing is right. You are in no way greedy or selfish for wanting another baby. But, my eyes have been opened in the past few months working with the military and some people actualy do feel that way. Some people do get pregnant just so they won't be deployed, etc. Again, I know you're not that kind of person, but, if she's young and an idiot....)

No, DH is the AD Air Force. I'm just a DoD civilian who works in the same office as her.

Wow. Then I have no idea. I try and give people liek that (especially so young) the benefit of the doubt and think "Why would they be acting this way?" but there's nothing else that comes to mind.

She's an idiot.

And you are an amazig mommy who deserves 10 babies (if you want them).

Thank you for saying that! Seriously made my day!

Pumpkin30

I think people TTC right now are crazy, but it's more of a teasing thing. The selfish and greedy party makes me think WTF. Because other people can't have children you should wait? When is it appropriate to have a second child, then?

Seriously, people will never run out of things to say that amaze me.