My brother is filing for divorced, he is going for custody and the house. My SIL has already told him if he leaves her she couldn't take care of the kids. She spends absolutley no time with the kids and does whatever she can to get out of taking care of them. My guess is she'll fight him out of spite.
It seems like everyone I know is getting divorced lately.
Re: How hard is it for a father to get full custody??
I would *think* given that they are just divorcing and jsut starting custody he wouldn't have to prove her unfit he would have to prove he was the main caretaker for the children and it would be less disruptive and beneficial for the children to remain with him and give her visitation.
The courts usually side with the least disruption to children.
My BIL just got custody of his 2 - but severe parental alienation was involved. It took over 6 psychologists and several years to win the custody case.
I think your brother has a good shot if he starts documenting issues immediately, stays on top of his custidy time now (don't miss any time) and goes for custody from the beginning. I agree with PP that it is probably easier to get custody from the get go.
Good luck to your brother!
depending what state he lives in will help his chances. tell him also to leave the house and take his son with him when he does thats how my H custody of his daughter.
I was just going to say, tell him NOT to leave the house. That's a mistake most guys make. Good luck!