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Saying my heartbroken goodbye

Yesterday my DH, mom and I went for my NT scan at the high risk dr. When they started the u/s my Baby A was jumping around, sucking his or her thumb (or so we think) and looked and measured great. Unfortunately they discovered that my sweet Baby B stopped developing around 9 weeks and no longer has a heartbeat. They say it was s chromosone problem and nothing that I've done or could have done to prevent it. I am beyond devistated, mortified, heartbroken and depressed. I seriously have not stopped crying.

So this is my goodbye to MoM's and I wish you all a very happy, healthy and wonderful 9 months and enjoy the babies you have. I know I will love my toughh little survivor to no end and will always remember the great feeling and the love that I will always have for the baby I bearly got to know, but was blessed to carry for those short, sweet 9 weeks.

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    I'm sorry for your loss.
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    I am so sorry for your loss, I wish you didn't have to go through this.  You will be in my prayers.
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    i'm so sorry for your loss.  This is two similar losses on this board in just a day - breaks my heart.

    you will always be a MoM - you have loved 2 babies in your belly at once- it's a special feeling and you were blesesd to feel it... I hope you can find peace in your heart - i will keep you in my prayers.

    (((HUGS)))

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    So very sorry for your loss.  I hope the rest of your pregnancy is healthy and uneventful.
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    I am so sorry for your loss, and sending you peace and strength.
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    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    I am so sorry for your loss.   I pray you find peace and comfort.
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    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so very sorry for you loss. 
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Take care!
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    i'm so sorry for your loss.  This is two similar losses on this board in just a day - breaks my heart.

    you will always be a MoM - you have loved 2 babies in your belly at once- it's a special feeling and you were blesesd to feel it... I hope you can find peace in your heart - i will keep you in my prayers.

    (((HUGS)))

    So well said....I am so very sorry for your loss.


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    i'm so, so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby b. :(
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss. :(
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    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. You'll always be a Mom and welcome here. I will you a healthy remainder of your pregnancy and healing for you and your family.
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    I am so sorry.
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss.  
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss.  This is the 2nd post about this in the last 24 hours.  Makes me so sad.  Thankfully baby A is growing strong.  Grieve for baby B and try to take it easy.  I found a lot of comfort in posting in the miscarriage groups after losing my son.  Best of luck to you. <HUGS>
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    imageGoldie_Locks_5:

    you will always be a MoM - you have loved 2 babies in your belly at once- it's a special feeling and you were blesesd to feel it..


     agreed 100%

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    I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you have an uneventful pregnancy with baby A. Take care.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss...Take time to mourn your baby, I hope baby A continues to fight...
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. This happened to us as well (we started out with a quadruple pregnancy and spontaneously reduced to twins) and I was VERY worried that I would lose the other babies as well. The docs reassured me that there was nothing I could have done differently. The remaining babies should be safe since they would have stopped developing as well if they had the same issue as the ones we lost.  

    Stay strong! I'm hoping for a happy and healthy rest of your pregnancy for you.

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    I am very sorry for your loss.
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    I am so sorry for your loss :(
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    I am so very sorry for your loss.
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    Thank you all for the kind words, thought, prayers and hugs. I will never forget the joyful feeling of carrying two babies in my tummy. Each day seems to be better and I am just so so happy and so so lucky to still hav emy one healthy baby.

    Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. I hope all of you have a healthy and happy 9 months and enjoy every second of your multiples lives! Hopefully with my next pregnancy I can come back with two healthy babies :)

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    So very sorry for your loss. And like pp said, you will always be a MoM's. Keeping you in my prayers.
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

     God bless you and precious Baby B.

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