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Pregnant after IF
Leaving with a Broken Heart
the last 5 hours have been hell!We had fallen in love with the little baby growing inside of me, and we were so excited about our fourth u/s when we woke up this morning.I met DH at the RE's office at 10am. As soon as the u/s began the baby looked like a "baby" for the first time, but I didn't see the reassuring flicker of the heart. As the RE tried to get a better look, I saw the look on her face and knew before she even said a word. DH didn't understand why I was crying at first. She looked at him, grabbed my leg and said I am so sorry. I laid there for what seemed like an eternity while they grabbed another person for a second opinion. The whole time I was sobbing hysterically. We were supposed to go in see our healthy little baby and leave with another picture of him or her. Instead we left with a Rx for Zanex and a time slot for our D&C.After 3 great u/s's and hearing the heartbeat twice we felt it was "safe" to tell, and just finished sharing our news last night. Our family, friends and my whole office knew.We came home and packed up all the baby books, the preggy pop drops, the Zofran, my pregnancy journal, the baby booties we had been given, and the notebook that I started planning all my baby "to-do's" in.We are devastated!! Even with the Zanex I can't stop crying. DH feel asleep with me sobbing in his arms, and I slipped out of bed to share the news with you.I have to go in tomorrow morning for another u/s (protocol even though they told us not to expect any change) and due to how far along we are they scheduled a D&C for Thursday morning. We were told the other more natural alternatives would be much too traumatic at this point.To add to the hurt and pain, I have recently found out about three close friends that were all going to also have babies around the same time as me 
I will watch their bellies grow and feel the sharp pain of loosing my sweet little baby every time I see them.
I will watch their bellies grow and feel the sharp pain of loosing my sweet little baby every time I see them. June 2010-Lap
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
PAIF/SAIF Welcome
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
PAIF/SAIF Welcome
Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frosties
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Re: Leaving with a Broken Heart
TTC #1 - May 2010 - IUI #3: BFP
TTC #2 - May 2012 -IUI #2: BFP
Diagnosed PCOS & MFI-Success with IUI
Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
FET #1 April 2011= BFN
FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138
Living After Losing
After two losses, third time was a charm.
pm me for blog link
TTC since October 2007
Dx with Unexplained IF
IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!
Expecting twin boys!!!!!
Oh hon - I am just so terribly sorry. My first missed m/c was found at 12 weeks after seeing a healthy HB. I know how traumatic it is to have a late loss. I wish there was something I could say to make it a little better, but I know there's not. Please take care of yourself. I'm sending tons of T&Ps your way.
(((((hugehugs)))))
Unexplained Infertility
After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!
TTC #2
After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!
So very sorry for your loss...
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
I am so sorry hon. This makes me cry. The same thing happened to us. We just told people after seeing the heartbeat twice and then it was gone. Please take care of yourself. It will be hard. I am so so sorry.
The D&C itself it's so bad. You are out and then it's over. I had a week since it was over the Holiday. I am glad I had this time. Huge hugs.
TTC since 2007
6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.