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cutebride73

This one is actually really nice. 

Background: I only shared about my m/c's with a couple of people at work.  Then at the very end of the school year a teacher found out that her baby didn't have a hb at 12 weeks.  The one secretary who knew about what happened with me came and told me about her and asked if I would be willing to talk to her.  She was at school that day and had only found out the day before.  I was not close with her, but I went to her room during her planning period and shared my story with her.  She was so grateful to have someone to talk to.  I was able to answer some of her questions and I think (I hope) I was able to help her in some way. 

We haven't really had a chance to talk since school started again (and like I said we aren't really very close - except we have this bond now).  So today I saw her when we both had a minute and I asked how her summer was.  She knew what I was asking and she said they were still deciding whether to try for another baby again or not (they already have 2 school age children and she is 38 or 39).  They had to wait 2 cycles and so this was her first month to be able to try again.  She then asked about my summer and I said that we were still trying, but no luck yet

Then she said that she was really wishing that we would have come back to school and that I would have a little  baby bump.  She said that she hoped that I would get pregnant more than she hoped that she would get pregnant.  She said that I really deserved to get pregnant and that I had been so sweet to her.  Of course, I don't think I "deserve" it more than she does (and I said so), but it was really sweet that she felt that way and told me.  It made me want to cry - in a good way.    

Aubs13

She sounds so sweet.  Your willingness to share your story with her must have meant so much to her.

ashleyrsotomayor

That's really sweet. I love when my m/c helps me connect with people (especially you all) that I would probably not have connected with otherwise.

armysis24

How sweet of you to reach out to her at her difficult time and how sweet of her to say those nice things to you!

JayandTay09

It was so wonderful of you to share your story with her - it truly helps!

TeacherVicky

That's sweet. She was probably so appreciative of you reaching out to her.

ColleenS629

That was so sweet! I understand what she means. When we were trying last year (with the we'll see what happens approach- before actively TTC) I had a friend that had been trying for a long time and I wanted her to be pregnant even more than I wanted it for myself. I knew how much they had been through and I knew she'd be a great mom. She is pregnant now with b/g twins and I am so happy for them. I just want to join her in the PG club!

TheGregory's07

That was so very sweet of her.

sunflowr0803

Aww, that's really sweet.

luckymrs.

So sweet!!