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Tell me why you don't like me
This is serious. It's going to get drama filled, but I need to know.
I know I need to work on my personality. I KNOW THIS. Having insight will give me something to think about.
So please, let me have it. No bannings, no reportings. Be honest and straight forward. Or you could send me a PM. Whatever your choice.
I know I've insulted people for my fat comments lately. So that one is all taken care of.
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Re: Tell me why you don't like me
(c) Holly Aprecio Photography - Oct 2011
I am not sure if you are trying to be funny most of the time, or ironic, or if you have some kind of social disorder where you don't understand boundaries, but you are rude, and weird, and a flagrant attention whore who seems to thrive on negativity.
The reason no one is bothering LuckyAbby is because she is not bothering anyone else.
I know. I've really tried to not be dramatic but I get mad when people bring old stuff up. I give them what they want. Totally my fault.
I agree with PPs. I think you desparatly need attention good or bad so you cause drama to get the attention you so crave. I think you probably have a poor body image and would benifit from some counseling on that as well as the need for attention. I would not say I hate you, but AW is an understatment in you case.
That said, I am not a therapist so take my opinion with a grain of salt. Though I supposed like a trainwreck I can't turn away and do find myself opening your posts which only feeds into your attention seeking ways, just like responding to this post is.
You make it a point to be condescending, belittling and rude to people that come here for advice and want help. Saying it once isn't enough for you. You have to say it repeatedly. Even when you've been belittling and a biitch to me, I let it go and try to give you the benefit of the doubt when I see posts from you at a later date. But your behavior confirms my gut feeling each time. I agree with Shar, I feel sorry for you and I think talking to someone may be beneficial to you.
Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, need for admiration, extreme self-involvement, and lack of empathy for others. Individuals with this disorder are usually arrogantly self-assured and confident. They expect to be noticed as superior. Many highly successful individuals might be considered narcissistic. However, this disorder is only diagnosed when these behaviors become persistent and very disabling or distressing.
Complications:
Vulnerability in self-esteem makes individuals with this disorder very sensitive to criticism or defeat. Although they may not show it outwardly, criticism may haunt these individuals these individuals and may leave them feeling humiliated, degraded, hollow, and empty. They may react with disdain, rage, or defiant counterattack. Their social life is often impaired due to problems derived from entitlement, the need for admiration, and the relative disregard for the sensitivities of others. Though their excessive ambition and confidence may lead to high achievement; performance may be disrupted due to intolerance of criticism or defeat. Sometimes vocational functioning can be very low, reflecting an unwillingness to take a risk in competitive or other situations in which defeat is possible. Individuals with this disorder have special difficulties adjusting to growing old and losing their former ?superiority?.
That is all
This. Plus I just think you're an a**hole in general. :shrugs:
I don't dislike you but you definitley like to stir the pot! That's the only annoying thing. I most of the time just skip past your posts b/c
A) people will either jump on you & try to start drama or
I agree.
There is a difference in posting snarky honest comments and then being an outright douchebag. You fall into the the second and honestly I don't know if I should roll my eyes or actually feel bad for you.
I don't dislike you either, I don't know you, but I think you have serious self esteem issues. It's like you want approval and attention so bad, but are going about it the WRONG way.
I also think you would benefit from talking to someone.
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:whispers: this is ironic...
It sure is, you could also talk to someone.
Exactly, give it up.
Exactly, give it up.
I missed whatever made people hate you in the beginning, but sometimes it seems like you made such a bad impression initially that people jump on you for things that are stupid.
I don't think you're weird either. But I'm sure that if people got to know me, they'd think I was pretty weird, so my opinion there might not count for much.
Why don't you ask SFB or anyone else you taunted during your reign of terror?
They don't like you because you are a douchbag pure and simple. So take your pineapple express and shove it up your vag. WE ARE SICK OF YOUR BULLSH*T AND SO IS BETTY WHITE!
I couldn't have said this better myself.
I don't dislike you. Sometimes you're funny, sometimes you're mean, sometimes you're judgmental. We all are.
Anyway, people on here can't handle being judged or being the subject of unpopular opinions. So if you want to be liked (here and IRL), you've got to appear to be sensitive and bite your tongue.....
Why should I like you?
I'm not a member of any off-boards so I can't speak about the drama that went on there, but from what I've seen on The Bump, you haven't ever given me a single reason that I (or anyone else for that matter) should like you--you're maliciously mean, vindictive, and completely self-absorbed. I may have missed them, but I don't think I've ever seen a post of yours that asked a genuine question, or asked for help/advice. All I've seen is you bullying others.
Clearly, some people responding in this thread weren't around when you posted under tstumpf. Or whatever the fvck your SN was at that point in time.
Enough said. I maintain that you are a douche and if I met you IRL I would have no problem calling you a douche to your face.
I don't dislike many people on here or even IRL. You never personally attacked me. However, I did witness a ton of shiit you caused. You can't come back and expect that people aren't going to comment on the crap YOU started.
You've been around long enough on TB under several different SNs to know better.
I don't know you, but I do remember reading some of your posts in the past, I don't have any personal issues with you... I'm trying to catch up as far as the posts you and others have posted today though, I guess I can't understand why people don't like you because you brought up the 'fat' issue? I think you could have re-worded it a bit, (I'm skinny myself so I know when I say things like that it can tick someone off), so it didn't seem like you have attitude (?), not sure. I'm still not sure why you'd be called a douche just because you say you're trying to gain weight. I've had the same problem before as well, and I'm not saying that to piss anybody off. Being underweight can be just as big of an issue as being overweight.
Like others have said, you have to take what you read online with a grain of salt. I don't really let online personalities bother me I guess.
I have to say, it irritated me that you posted a picture of yourself in your "sexy" post partum panties, you know the mesh ones.
Other than that I try to stay away from the situation.
wow, I'm not on here enough, I'm totally lost...
I think you've said some pretty harsh things to some people, but that's not the main reason I don't 'like' you.
I believe your first post on tb was about your BF not supporting your decision to have LO or something like that. People were very nice to you. Something happened where you said something people didn't like about disabled children (please don't quote me, I'm not 100% sure). After that, you became a total B!TCH!!!!
When you called Tonya G out and said all kinds of nasty things about her...I lost all 'e-respect' for you. Then, even though we all knew DianeN9 made up stories and lied about things, whenever she would try to come back, you continued to belittle her and tell her she should give her child up for adoption. People moved past the things you said/did, but you couldn't move past the things she said/did. Pot...meet kettle!
I dont dislike you but I think you are waaaay too caught up in your physical appearance. You seem to believe that being skinny somehow makes you superior to others. I remember you posting pics of your stomach at like 3 months pp and just seemed to be bragging about it. I also remember the BSCness of tsumph or whatever your old name was.
IDK, you just seem to be far too caught up in yourself.
THIS. EXACTLY. You have never done anything to me personally but I think you are one of the biggest DB's I have ever "e-met" and if I ever met you on the street in Boston I would say it to your face. I avoid you and all of your posts like the freaking plauge.
Let's all remember her post about wanting to change OBGYN's because she didn't want to deliver at a hospital where she would be the minority. Or how about her opinion on handicapped (physically and mentally) children? Yeah this chick is a real winner.