March 2011 Moms

So, we tried to have sex last night (TMI?)

1. Had to use KY Jelly... never had to use that for sex before.

2. Once we got going, I made DH stop. It was just too uncomfortable. I felt like I had pressure the whole time... like I had to pee.

Sucks because I really wanted it too.

And, no, I didn't leave DH hanging. I'm not that mean! Wink

Re: So, we tried to have sex last night (TMI?)

  • lol I know what you mean. Poor H feels bad bc I can't enjoy it much. I let him do his business and we're all set
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  • Yeah, we both just miss the closeness and intimacy of sex. I mean, we still do other stufff, but it's getting old. We need to spice it up, but we're not sure how. Smile
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  • LOL to the last part!  I hope it gets more comfortable for you soon!  40w sex is not so comfortable, so hopefully you'll get to enjoy some decent sex at some point in your pregnancy! 
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  • We have had to break out the ky... I think it is just that the increased sensitivity of the area means that before I am very one the go anything "rough" is irritating, not good.

    Poor DH is having a hard time of it... he just "fixed" his wireless mouse by pressing the reset button... then asked if I had a button he could try...

    He keeps waiting for the second tri to start, since I promised him it gets better... I just hope I am not lying.

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  • Seee, I'm the opposite... I don't ever want to do it, but once we do It is amazing!  I can't get enough... then I'm like what do you mean your done? LOL... I wanna keep going!  Its crazy!  I have never had this good of sex! 
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  • We did it yesterday and everything went alright (I can relate with the dryness - new to me but I think it's cause I'm mildly dehydrated and can't drink enough!). I felt fine till last night I was watching a movie in bed and my lower back hurt, by crotch bones, felt achy down there in general. I'd hate to think that was from regular sex but I didn't do anything else yesterday that possibly could be it!
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  • Lucky you for only having to use it now. With my sexual disorders, I have to use lube every time, like I have to insert it in and put it on him, and reapply every 5 min. And sex hurts like hell every time. Sex is no longer possible for us, just too unbearable. He's used to it now, that's sad isn't it! the good thing is that he has a really low libido anyway, so it's all good.
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  • We need to have it more,, busyness gets in the way. Feels good and looking forward to being bigger and seeing how creative we can get! lol
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