Bitter musings inside

CarrieLeigh84

Can someone please explain to me how I can go from being one of THOSE people (accidental pregnancy) while on birth control and be sitting in the boat I am now? Please? Someone enlighten me on the universe's sick sense of humor.

babygirlpriest

CarrieLeigh84:

Can someone please explain to me how I can go from being one of THOSE people (accidental pregnancy) while on birth control and be sitting in the boat I am now? Please? Someone enlighten me on the universe's sick sense of humor.

That's it... no further explaination. The universe is a massive assholle that loves to dump shiit all over us.

CarrieLeigh84

I like your explanation, BGP. It sounds about right.

grr_aargh

I went from FH (pg on the pill, perfect compliance) to average (TTC for 5 months) to WTF (4 miscarriages in 12 months).

If I understood it, I'd be a bazillionaire, I guess.

But I don't get it.  I spent a lot of time joking that I must've accidentally drop kicked puppies into Jesus.

 

CarrieLeigh84

grr_aargh:

I went from FH (pg on the pill, perfect compliance) to average (TTC for 5 months) to WTF (4 miscarriages in 12 months).

If I understood it, I'd be a bazillionaire, I guess.

But I don't get it.  I spent a lot of time joking that I must've accidentally drop kicked puppies into Jesus.

 

 

I've heard he doesn't look kindly on that. You must have one hell of a kick

CarrieLeigh84

grr_aargh:

I went from FH (pg on the pill, perfect compliance) to average (TTC for 5 months) to WTF (4 miscarriages in 12 months).

If I understood it, I'd be a bazillionaire, I guess.

But I don't get it.  I spent a lot of time joking that I must've accidentally drop kicked puppies into Jesus.

 

 

I've heard he doesn't look kindly on that. You must have one hell of a kick

ade2be

I don't get it either Carrie...it has to be a sick sense of humor.

We were sure that we would have problems ttc because of my irregular cycles...so we started trying right away and low and behold, were pregnant on the first cycle.  I have spent the next 2 years in and out of doctors and through fertility treatments....still with no baby. 

Court1

The universe sucks.  Plain & simple.

I went from an "accidental pregnancy" to 3 months to concieve.....to ::::crickets chirping::::

mlmtgg

babygirlpriest:

CarrieLeigh84:

Can someone please explain to me how I can go from being one of THOSE people (accidental pregnancy) while on birth control and be sitting in the boat I am now? Please? Someone enlighten me on the universe's sick sense of humor.

That's it... no further explaination. The universe is a massive assholle that loves to dump shiit all over us.

all of that.

ColindaP

Indeed, the universe's sense of humor is whack. I always assumed I'd have trouble getting pregnant. Then when I get pregnant in a not-trying, half-assed "preventing" till we get drunk and leave the condoms in the drawer, we were sooooooo relieved that at least we wouldn't have trouble.

Ha. Haha. Hahahaha.

The other really, really funny thing (you know, weird funny, not haha funny) is that with my dx of DOR, I shouldn't be getting pg. I shouldn't be ovulating every month. But I do and I am. And then the universe yells "Psych!" and takes it back. He's a real motherfvcker.

KristysRedBarn

babygirlpriest:

CarrieLeigh84:

Can someone please explain to me how I can go from being one of THOSE people (accidental pregnancy) while on birth control and be sitting in the boat I am now? Please? Someone enlighten me on the universe's sick sense of humor.

That's it... no further explaination. The universe is a massive assholle that loves to dump shiit all over us.

This.  I totally don't get it.

JuJuBe3

grr_aargh:

I went from FH (pg on the pill, perfect compliance) to average (TTC for 5 months) to WTF (4 miscarriages in 12 months).

If I understood it, I'd be a bazillionaire, I guess.

But I don't get it.  I spent a lot of time joking that I must've accidentally drop kicked puppies into Jesus.

 

I think Grrr's got it.  If any of us could really understand or explain 'why', we'd be bazillionaires.  It makes no sense to us, which is why it sucks so bad. 

 

writergirl5786

gosh, carrie. i said the exact same thing in the car on the way to the drs office for bloodwork. a year ago i never imagined in my wildest dreams i'd be where i am today. i went from a fertile fvcking ho to a broken empty bitter ttcal-er. sighs. the universe definitely sucks

jennsadye1979

Yep. I think we have all been put into a huge black hole.

It's the Universes anus.

butterfly843

I always wonder what I did to annoy the universe so bad. I don't know why I always fall on the crappy side of odds, wish I could figure it out and win lotto.

maceymay1816

Yup universe sucks!!!  Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day and won't be so sucky, until then i vote for jack daniels.  On the rocks with a lime.