just wow

Kingsley420

I guess I have to read a bit more about the Snarky and T-TTC. I asked a legit question and got freaking attacked by a lynch mob basically. Never going back there again. GEEZ!

robinsokj

Do you have any idea what t-ttc stands for?

ams8099

You went there to ask a question? What did you ask?

cara-n-steve

What kind of question did you ask? 

Dr.Loretta

ams8099:

You went there to ask a question? What did you ask?

She asked why someone with IF was upset about a pregnancy announcement and complaints about pregnancy symptoms from a total stranger.

Makes sense that it was not well received.

karrizma

Kingsley420:

I guess I have to read a bit more about the Snarky and T-TTC. I asked a legit question and got freaking attacked by a lynch mob basically. Never going back there again. GEEZ!

I didn't see your post...but they were probably snarky because of your ginormous tickers and the fact that you are pregnant and posting on the Trouble Trying to Conceive board.

cara-n-steve

Dr.Loretta:

ams8099:

You went there to ask a question? What did you ask?

She asked why someone with IF was upset about a pregnancy announcement and complaints about pregnancy symptoms from a total stranger.

Makes sense that it was not well received.

Ugh....I would be part of the lynching mob she describes...

ams8099

Dr.Loretta:

ams8099:

You went there to ask a question? What did you ask?

She asked why someone with IF was upset about a pregnancy announcement and complaints about pregnancy symptoms from a total stranger.

Makes sense that it was not well received.

No joke Dr L. Apparently she lacks common sense and empathy.  

karrizma

Dr.Loretta:

ams8099:

You went there to ask a question? What did you ask?

She asked why someone with IF was upset about a pregnancy announcement and complaints about pregnancy symptoms from a total stranger.

Makes sense that it was not well received.

Well, she's a bright one.

Sorry Kingsley, but that was a dumb thing to post on that board.  No wonder you got attacked.

ams8099

karrizma:

Dr.Loretta:

ams8099:

You went there to ask a question? What did you ask?

She asked why someone with IF was upset about a pregnancy announcement and complaints about pregnancy symptoms from a total stranger.

Makes sense that it was not well received.

Well, she's a bright one.

Sorry Kingsley, but that was a dumb thing to post on that board.  No wonder you got attacked.

Yup, no support for you here.

juliekenny

Oh...honey, no....no, no, no.  That was so not good.  And then to keep responding to them the way you did?? Infertility being the result of karma??   They have every right to be upset with you.

I recently had a miscarriage, people did not DARE tell me anything good going on in their life and I didn't want to hear it.  Is it selfish? Yes, and that's perfectly acceptable.

Put yourself in their shoes, all they want is a child and sometimes it feels like everyone else in the world gets to have a baby instead of you. Tickers are NOT wanted on some of these boards, it's just a respect thing, PLEASE read the board discriptions before posting something and think about is any of my tickers/pic's going to offend anybody.

robinsokj

I just went and read what you said over there.  Not too bright, are we?

magdalina.h

Yeah, that was really stupid of you.  You could have asked that same question here. Please don't go ask the loss boards that question either.

Kingsley420

I know now that it wasn't the right question to ask. learn from mistakes right?

robinsokj

Kingsley420:

I know now that it wasn't the right question to ask. learn from mistakes right?

And you made a giant ass of yourself with your replies.  Why would you even think to go to that board in the first place?

ams8099

juliekenny:

Oh...honey, no....no, no, no.  That was so not good.  And then to keep responding to them the way you did?? Infertility being the result of karma??   They have every right to be upset with you.

I recently had a miscarriage, people did not DARE tell me anything good going on in their life and I didn't want to hear it.  Is it selfish? Yes, and that's perfectly acceptable.

Put yourself in their shoes, all they want is a child and sometimes it feels like everyone else in the world gets to have a baby instead of you. Tickers are NOT wanted on some of these boards, it's just a respect thing, PLEASE read the board discriptions before posting something and think about is any of my tickers/pic's going to offend anybody.

WOW...see she can here crying how mean they were, but she was the one that was truly heartless.

As somebody that struggled with IF, I can tell you that every pregnancy announcement or  complaint about m/s was a reminder of something I did not have and might never have.

I may be pregnant now, but I will stick up for my "sisters" before ever sticking up for a pregnancy chick who doesn't get it. 

Kingsley420

Just going into different boards..had no idea what the terms meant and when someone started freaking out on me of course I would get a bit defensive. I said I screwed up..christ!

magdalina.h

Kingsley420:

Just going into different boards..had no idea what the terms meant and when someone started freaking out on me of course I would get a bit defensive. I said I screwed up..christ!

That is not an apology for the awful things that you said in that post.

Kingsley420

I'm not one of those people that say sorry. Its not in my vocabulary but for different reasons that what you may thing. Sorry is not an instant band-aid, a sorry won't fix everything. Did Hitler say sorry to the Jewish people and they just said ok? nope. I don't say sorry, I say yes I screwed up and I acknowledge that I did. Nothing more I can do or say about it other than stay out of that board.

katt3233

Kingsley420:

I said I screwed up..christ!

Actually the last thing you said was "I'm outta here, you B!tches are crazy!"  And then you came crying here to say that we attacked you like a lynch mob! 

rkearns0821

magdalina.h:

Kingsley420:

Just going into different boards..had no idea what the terms meant and when someone started freaking out on me of course I would get a bit defensive. I said I screwed up..christ!

That is not an apology for the awful things that you said in that post.

Oh well as long as you said you screwed up, well that just clears everything up and takes away all the hurtful things you said

How dare you say that IF is a result of karma....trust me that is NOT true cause if it was you wouldn't be KU right now. Also you probably shouldn't be "going into different boards" if you don't know what the hell they stand for!

 

loveyoubean

Anyone who would post what you posted on that board is looking for attention and drama... looks like you achieved your goal!  Idiot...

Kingsley420

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

 

biblionerd

Wow OP, you suck big time. Apologies now or not, you were the heartless b!tch.

robinsokj

Kingsley420:

I'm not one of those people that say sorry. Its not in my vocabulary but for different reasons that what you may thing. Sorry is not an instant band-aid, a sorry won't fix everything. Did Hitler say sorry to the Jewish people and they just said ok? nope. I don't say sorry, I say yes I screwed up and I acknowledge that I did. Nothing more I can do or say about it other than stay out of that board.

I've never said this on the bump.  But, I truly feel sorry for your children

ams8099

magdalina.h:

Kingsley420:

Just going into different boards..had no idea what the terms meant and when someone started freaking out on me of course I would get a bit defensive. I said I screwed up..christ!

That is not an apology for the awful things that you said in that post.

You didn't THINK. You didn't use your little pea brain to think for two seconds why pregnancy announcements would be hurtful to somebody who was infertile. Obviously you were lurking there and any moron would have figured out what the third T in Snarky & TTTC meant. Hell, SNARKY is in the title.

Next time you decide to be a b!tch and tell somebody they deserve to be infertile, don't come crying to another board for being called out for it. Now GTFO

rkearns0821

Kingsley420:

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

 

Or maybe try babygaga.com...It is much better suited for your intelligence level!

GBCB!!

TheCricket

Kingsley420:

I'm not one of those people that say sorry. Its not in my vocabulary but for different reasons that what you may thing. Sorry is not an instant band-aid, a sorry won't fix everything. Did Hitler say sorry to the Jewish people and they just said ok? nope. I don't say sorry, I say yes I screwed up and I acknowledge that I did. Nothing more I can do or say about it other than stay out of that board.

Um, I think I know what you mean, but Hitler died in a bunker, and an apology was nowhere near his intention. Perhaps try another analogy... and fast?

Stop digging the hole. It's not going to make it any easier on you on any of the boards if you keep on going. Like you said - live and learn, since you can't take it back. But, from the perspective of someone who also never thought I'd be able to conceive, saying your sorry really would be a start, and intentionally not saying it isn't perhaps the way to convince people you really mean it.

katt3233

Kingsley420:

I'm not one of those people that say sorry. Its not in my vocabulary but for different reasons that what you may thing. Sorry is not an instant band-aid, a sorry won't fix everything. Did Hitler say sorry to the Jewish people and they just said ok? nope. I don't say sorry, I say yes I screwed up and I acknowledge that I did. Nothing more I can do or say about it other than stay out of that board.

Ok, so telling Dip that she's not pregnant because of karma, doesn't deserve an apology.  Maybe saying sorry won't fix everything, but maybe you'll think about how other people feel before you speak.  And sometimes, saying "sorry" really can resolve a lot of hurt feelings.

sparkymcgeee

Kingsley420:

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

 

The bump isn't full of crazy people. You were just really insensitive. Put yourself in their shoes. Seriously. Some of those women have tried for years and have had multiple losses. Can't you see how what you did was inappropriate? It doesn't take a ton of common sense to see it and just suck up you pride and apologize.

 

ams8099

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Kingsley420:

I'm not one of those people that say sorry. Its not in my vocabulary but for different reasons that what you may thing. Sorry is not an instant band-aid, a sorry won't fix everything. Did Hitler say sorry to the Jewish people and they just said ok? nope. I don't say sorry, I say yes I screwed up and I acknowledge that I did. Nothing more I can do or say about it other than stay out of that board.

Fine, don't apologize. You obviously don't mean it anyway. You can stay off that board and the rest of the bump while you are at it. 

katt3233

Kingsley420:

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

 

If you say that you just "screwed up", why are you saying that all of are crazy?  Because we believe that infertility hurts and you should know your audience?

ebat

Kingsley420:

I'm not one of those people that say sorry. Its not in my vocabulary but for different reasons that what you may thing. Sorry is not an instant band-aid, a sorry won't fix everything. Did Hitler say sorry to the Jewish people and they just said ok? nope. I don't say sorry, I say yes I screwed up and I acknowledge that I did. Nothing more I can do or say about it other than stay out of that board.

 

Just so we're clear.  You're Hilter in this analogy, right?

gidge

Kingsley420:

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

 

FWIW, I thought all the responses over here were very nice and well intentioned.  Certainly not the response of all they other crazy ladies on that other board...

ams8099

Kingsley420:

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

Don't let the door hit you @ss on the way out. 

iris427

Kingsley420:

I'm not one of those people that say sorry. Its not in my vocabulary but for different reasons that what you may thing. Sorry is not an instant band-aid, a sorry won't fix everything. Did Hitler say sorry to the Jewish people and they just said ok? nope. I don't say sorry, I say yes I screwed up and I acknowledge that I did. Nothing more I can do or say about it other than stay out of that board.

WTF does that even mean?  So you never apologize when you are in the wrong?  How childish.  And then you have the chutzpah to come over here and complain about how you were treated?  I read what you said over there and you were WAY out of line.

For the record, going on one bump board to *** about another never ends well.  You realize that people can read more than one board, right?  Or that many of us know the ladies who post on other boards? 

And really, you are comparing yourself to Hitler?  No he didn't apologize, ever.  Because he killed himself. 

Scout05

So...

IF is karma for being a meanie head on an internet message board and you have now inadvertently compared yourself to Hitler.

Great. Full of win.

 

(And btw, implying in any way, shape, or form that TTTC, IF or loss are a result of "karma" is the most disgusting thing you could possibly say on these boards. You deserved whatever they threw at you.)

ams8099

gidge:

Kingsley420:

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

 

FWIW, I thought all the responses over here were very nice and well intentioned.  Certainly not the response of all they other crazy ladies on that other board...

And you all thought we would back her up  

Serendipitie

I seriously love you all xoxoxo

gidge

ams8099:

gidge:

Kingsley420:

Ok, well nevermind. Profile being deleted. Babycenter.com here I come. The Bump is full of crazy people.

 

FWIW, I thought all the responses over here were very nice and well intentioned.  Certainly not the response of all they other crazy ladies on that other board...

And you all thought we would back her up  

You never know... if she'd picked a board with ladies who still think we're all mean and crazy she might have gotten the sympathy she was hoping for.

I still see the posts about how much we must be missing now that people are warned off by the board name   I swear though, I'm only an internet bully when I drink....

SpartanGirl

Really?  You don't see how your GIGANTIC and multiple pregnancy tickers might be hurtful and inappropriate on the TROUBLE trying to conceive board?  I don't blame them for lynching you.