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Our children were picked up this morning to go back to bio mom.  We still have no clear answers as to why the system seems determined to reunify with a mom who clearly has proven over and over that she can not parent.  We hope they come back to us soon if that is the plan and with minimal damage.
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    I'm so sorry that this happened.  I don't understand why the system works the way it does sometimes.  I'll say a prayer for your kids.

    Take care. 

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    Hugs.  I will never understand a system that throws away a childhood waiting for "parents" to grow up. 
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    I am so sorry.  I'll NEVER understand our foster care system.  It so often seems to hurt rather than to help.  I hope everything is resolved soon and in the best interests of the children. Hugs!
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    I'm sorry. I'll pray for you and your kids.
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    I'm so sorry.  I hope and pray the kids will be alright.  If hey are in an unsafe situation, I pray that they will be removed and returned to your care as soon, and with as little trauma, as possible.

    Stay strong.

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    sending you lots and lots of hugs.
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    I'm so sorry! I hope they come back soon as well. T&P's coming your way!!!
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    So, so sorry. That is just heartbreaking.
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    I'm so sorry.  I will be thinking of you and the kids.  I hope things work out one way or another.

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    I'm so sorry!!  I too get so irritated with the foster care system.  It breaks my heart and has to be so hard for your family!  Thinking of you!
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    sorry.  ((((hugs))))
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    So sorry. T&P's coming your way.
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    I am so sorry. That is just heartbreaking
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    I am so sorry.. I really hope there is a reason for God's plan in this case. Good thoughts coming your way.
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    :( Hugs to you....
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    I am so sorry. {hugs}
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