Our children were picked up this morning to go back to bio mom. We still have no clear answers as to why the system seems determined to reunify with a mom who clearly has proven over and over that she can not parent. We hope they come back to us soon if that is the plan and with minimal damage.
I am so sorry. I'll NEVER understand our foster care system. It so often seems to hurt rather than to help. I hope everything is resolved soon and in the best interests of the children. Hugs!
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I'm so sorry. I hope and pray the kids will be alright. If hey are in an unsafe situation, I pray that they will be removed and returned to your care as soon, and with as little trauma, as possible.
I'm so sorry!! I too get so irritated with the foster care system. It breaks my heart and has to be so hard for your family! Thinking of you!
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I'm so sorry that this happened. I don't understand why the system works the way it does sometimes. I'll say a prayer for your kids.
Take care.
I'm so sorry. I hope and pray the kids will be alright. If hey are in an unsafe situation, I pray that they will be removed and returned to your care as soon, and with as little trauma, as possible.
Stay strong.
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