Have you seen this? Domestic Discipline

angiegail78

This blog has been linked on a lot of different boards.

I can't decide if I think it's real or not. 

AJplusKev

I did. So sad. I do think it's real though. THAT many people can't be making it up just for funsies.

MandyBrownNoser

My husband would not be able to walk for weeks if he tried anything like that.

war_eagle

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

Que*Sera*Sera

W.T.F.

angiegail78

AJplusKev:

I did. So sad. I do think it's real though. THAT many people can't be making it up just for funsies.

Yeah, I definitely believe that domestic discipline is real, but I'm doubting that particular blog.  The names Parker and Brinlee, the fact that they're extremely attractive and are selling videos makes me go hmmm.

though there are also comments from other people who practice DD that makes me think twice.

I just can't understand why someone would willingly submit to that.  There's a post about her "punishment" where she was made to sit naked in a corner.  Then she had to pick out a switch.  She was spanked with his hand, a hairbrush and then the switch.  And then she had to go back in the corner, naked.  It made me sick.

roshybride

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

akalutts

I am sitting here absolutely gobsmackingly stunned that anyone would put themselves in such a situation willingly.

I can't even begin to wrap my head around it enough to come up with any other comment than that.

 

akalutts

roshybride:

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

I do not believe that the LDS support this kind of behavior. Granted there a several varieties of Mormon, so it could be one of the other groups.

angiegail78

roshybride:

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

In the "About" section she says they were raised with LDS principles and are Christian, but not LDS.

Tim'sWifey

Wow. 

This is what about.com has to say about it:  Click

roshybride

akalutts:

roshybride:

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

I do not believe that the LDS support this kind of behavior. Granted there a several varieties of Mormon, so it could be one of the other groups.

It might not be Mormon, but if it was definitely not mainstream Mormonism, but one of the more "cultish" varieties. If that makes sense? I'm not trying to bash Mormons, but I have heard of the Mormon like groups that believe in polygamy and child marriage, etc also practice domestic discipline.  But there are also other crazy religious groups too.

roshybride

akalutts:

roshybride:

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

I do not believe that the LDS support this kind of behavior. Granted there a several varieties of Mormon, so it could be one of the other groups.

It might not be Mormon, but if it was definitely not mainstream Mormonism, but one of the more "cultish" varieties. If that makes sense? I'm not trying to bash Mormons, but I have heard of the Mormon like groups that believe in polygamy and child marriage, etc also practice domestic discipline.  But there are also other crazy religious groups too.

PubStar09

WTF

danlexi04

I'm having serious trouble picking my jaw off the floor. Sent to bed? Spanked? WTF? if MH even attempted any of that shiz he'd be headed off to Utah to live with those wackos.

Que*Sera*Sera

Is it reciprocal? Does she get to spank him when he disrespects her? FFS

Mrs_Liberto

It's fake- a story line for porn.

angiegail78

this post from a linked blog is just disturbing.

There are thousands of couples who practice domestic discipline in this country. Thousands. I belong to many forums and chats with other couples like Brinlee and Parker.

Some things you dont know:
1. It is normally the woman who introduces dd into their marriage. She normally asks for it and wants it.

2. Many dd couples are made up of police officers, military, doctors, lawyers, PSYCHOLOGIST, priest, teachers etc. There is a wide span of career fields involved. Most DD couples are upper middle-class.

3. The relationship is completely consenting.

4. The discipline is not abuse. It is a SPANKING which by the way if you look at many of the older John Wayne movies they had dd scenes in them. DD has been around for generations. In the 50s it was commonplace for a husband to spank a wife if she was out of line. Spanking is not abuse. DD head of houses do not spank out of anger, but cool down first. They do not punch, slap or hurt their spouses in anyway accept on their bottoms. Yes, non corporal punishment is often applied as well. But remember- the wife WANTS this in her life.

5. There are many women who are truly being abused out there. They are being punched, kicked, bitten, stabbed etc. THESE are the woman who need help. They are not asking their husband "Please punch me in the stomach." We ask our husband "Please spank me, Sir."

6. It is none of your damn business. Brinlee and Parker have been open to their family and their friends about their relationship. If someone thought that Parker was abusing Brinlee they would have already called the police. There are plenty of people around on a daily basis who KNOW of the couples love for each other, and the way they choose to run their marriage who could have gotten them the so called "help" they needed if they thought she was being abused.

7. In a country as free as America where any religion can practice, any sexual orientation can live knowing the law protects them against hate crimes, all races and ethnicities dwell together in the same melting pot, the lifestyle preferences between two grown adults should be protected. Whether it be dd, master/slave, or any other type of BDSM. They arent hurting you, he isnt hurting her, so get over your self righteous judgmental high horses (and not everyone is a Christian who believes this by the way!!) and do something more productive with your lives- if you must interfere find a child or a woman who is really being abused and help them. Volunteer your abundant time on the internet with CASA.

angiegail78

Que*Sera*Sera:

Is it reciprocal? Does she get to spank him when he disrespects her? FFS

There was a blog linked somewhere else (I forget where) from another blog that stated only the head of household does the spanking.

jen8585

umm..... wow there are no words

 

JenniferJaneC

I can't read that.  I've tried twice now and I just can't bring myself to do it.

danlexi04

After reading more, it seems like the husband is more on the erotic side of the whole discipline thing. With all else aside, the nakedness makes it look less religious (or whatever it is) and more bad pornish. So, to me, she's an idiot and enjoys abuse and he's an abusive s&m freak.

MrsW007

I don't care if that blog is real or not.  That is disturbing and seems to be an abusive relationship to me. 

Mrs_Liberto

Sigh. DD is real and awful,  but this is just a marketing ruse.

I'm going to C&P (in italics) some parts of discussions from P&CE/MM on this:

There's no way this is real. 1., They describe the spanking in an S&M way. Seriously. It's like "he gently pulled down my panties, then warmed me up with his hand before moving on to the hairbrush and switch."

 2. They clearly aren't learning from their "mistakes" although they are bright women (the one is a law student.)

 3. They describe engaging in really childish behaviors with their husbands. Who "pouts, stamps her feet, and whines" when she wants something? Either they do it to get spanked, the spanking leads to childish behavior, or the whole thing is made up to try to make money from blogging.

4. These couples are unnaturally attractive. I know that some couples do use DD, but most of the ones I've seen (and I've seen quite a few since we investigated this phenom. in class one day) are overweight, middle aged, long-skirted fundie types. (From Amanjay)

5. They sell instructional "how - to" videos online, and purchase all of their "punishment" devices at a BDSM website, that they link.

6.There are only two law schools in Utah (BYU and UU, apparently), and neither one seems to have had / has a student named Brinlee.  Also, in her blog she says she still in law school, but on another DD message forum, she says she's a law school graduate. (From HRParker)

Que*Sera*Sera

Mrs_Liberto:

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I love when Lib goes into sleuth mode. 

war_eagle

Que*Sera*Sera:

Mrs_Liberto:

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I love when Lib goes into sleuth mode. 

Point number 4 made me giggle. 

PubStar09

Mrs_Liberto:

(...)

Nice find.  Thank you for making me feel better about this.

Mrs_Liberto

PubStar09:

Mrs_Liberto:

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Nice find.  Thank you for making me feel better about this.

Well, to be honest there's a huge (and growing) subsection of fundie Christians who are in support of various forms of DD. BUT this site is not one of them-- there is no way in hades that true fundies would be part of www.allspankingblogs.com. (NSFW if you feel like going there). It's all about erotica and BDSM under the role play of submissive/bad wifey. 

PubStar09

Mrs_Liberto:

PubStar09:

Mrs_Liberto:

(...)

Nice find.  Thank you for making me feel better about this.

Well, to be honest there's a huge (and growing) subsection of fundie Christians who are in support of various forms of DD. BUT this site is not one of them-- there is no way in hades that true fundies would be part of www.allspankingblogs.com. (NSFW if you feel like going there). It's all about erotica and BDSM under the role play of submissive/bad wifey. 

Ugh.

Oh, I believe there's an actual subculture of DD out there and it's sickening.  I can't fathom the amount of brainwashing it takes to agree to be in a relationship like that.

MRamos79

roshybride:

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

Why every time some sees something wrong, or that it happens in Utah, ppl have to think or say "they are Mormons".   I am a Mormon and it disturbs me not only to think about other "mormons" behaving like that because that is not part of the LDS doctrine.  Young girls starting like age 4 are taught that they are DAUGHTERS of a HEAVENLY FATHER therefore, they have to be treated like princesses, by themselves and by everybody else.  SO NO, IT'S NOT LDS doctrine.  I am an LDS convert, and I love the Church and it's teachings, I do not think any other religion places the woman in a high place like ours.  Young men are taught to respect women. 

If that is some kind of discipline certain couples have decided to practice, that is their own decision.

hippotree

MRamos79:

roshybride:

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

Why every time some sees something wrong, or that it happens in Utah, ppl have to think or say "they are Mormons".   I am a Mormon and it disturbs me not only to think about other "mormons" behaving like that because that is not part of the LDS doctrine.  Young girls starting like age 4 are taught that they are DAUGHTERS of a HEAVENLY FATHER therefore, they have to be treated like princesses, by themselves and by everybody else.  SO NO, IT'S NOT LDS doctrine.  I am an LDS convert, and I love the Church and it's teachings, I do not think any other religion places the woman in a high place like ours.  Young men are taught to respect women. 

If that is some kind of discipline certain couples have decided to practice, that is their own decision.

Thanks for your perspective... five months late.

ManiacMcGee

MRamos79:

roshybride:

war_eagle:

I've been disturbed by it all day.  I'm all for spicing things up in the bedroom, but that is so disturbing and has to be damaging to a relationship (and that is me taking it as this is their S&M trip and they are both consenting and willing participants--if not, then it is some serious abuse).  And then to blog about it as if it is so normal?  

 

I'm pretty sure it is not for sexual pleasure. He punishes her like a parent would punish a child (except a lot worse, since he is spanking her with a belt and a paddle). Obviously they are not equals in their marriage. He is definitely in control.

I am guessing it is religious based. I would guess Mormon, but I didn't read far enough to be sure.  

Why every time some sees something wrong, or that it happens in Utah, ppl have to think or say "they are Mormons".   I am a Mormon and it disturbs me not only to think about other "mormons" behaving like that because that is not part of the LDS doctrine.  Young girls starting like age 4 are taught that they are DAUGHTERS of a HEAVENLY FATHER therefore, they have to be treated like princesses, by themselves and by everybody else.  SO NO, IT'S NOT LDS doctrine.  I am an LDS convert, and I love the Church and it's teachings, I do not think any other religion places the woman in a high place like ours.  Young men are taught to respect women. 

If that is some kind of discipline certain couples have decided to practice, that is their own decision.

How in the world did you even find this post?  

angiegail78

ManiacMcGee:

How in the world did you even find this post?  

That's what I'm wondering!

Melaneigh1

angiegail78:

ManiacMcGee:

How in the world did you even find this post?  

That's what I'm wondering!

Me too.  Plus, I got really excited when I saw a TW comment.

MandyBrownNoser

fuucking mormons.

Funny story- I drove by the library yesterday and saw a lady being double teamed in the parking lot by the mormons.  I don't know if this town is at the top of their hit list or what but good lord it is getting out of control. 

JenniferJaneC

MandyBrownNoser:

fuucking mormons.

Funny story- I drove by the library yesterday and saw a lady being double teamed in the parking lot by the mormons.  I don't know if this town is at the top of their hit list or what but good lord it is getting out of control. 

You are my favorite person right now.  

DrBeepersWife

MandyBrownNoser:

fuucking mormons.

Funny story- I drove by the library yesterday and saw a lady being double teamed in the parking lot by the mormons.  I don't know if this town is at the top of their hit list or what but good lord it is getting out of control. 

buckin

MandyBrownNoser:

fuucking mormons.

Funny story- I drove by the library yesterday and saw a lady being double teamed in the parking lot by the mormons.  I don't know if this town is at the top of their hit list or what but good lord it is getting out of control. 

I heart you.

I'm married to a pagan from a long line of overzealous mormons....from Utah..go figure. We barely have anything to do with his grandparents who are leader's of their Mormon church. I could go on for days about their "beautiful teachings" but I won't because I have religious tolerance and all that jazz in addition to major love for Mandy.