Update & Short Term Plan (longish)

pnltybox

IUI #5 = Fail

AF showed up Wednesday......no surprise.......I had symptoms for a few days prior.  I'm super frustrated right now.  I know IUI works for me, but I can't seem to get that next BFP and major changes (job, insurance) need to be made before I move forward with IVF. 

The plan, as it stands, is to take the next 2-3 cycles off from any assisted TTC.  No drugs, no needles, no b/w, no u/s.............just good old fashioned BD when and where we feel like it (gee, what must that be like??!!).  I MIGHT use OPKs, but I may not even bother.  I'm going to "cleanse' my body of excess hormones and focus on being as healthy as I can for the next few months so I can come back with a clean mind and body.  I also plan on hiring a trainer and losing a few (ok, more than a few!) pounds because I truly believe that my weight has been affecting my hormones/fertility for a while, although no one will confirm this.  It's certainly worth the effort either way.  I'm determined to relax, destress and just enjoy my life for awhile.

We plan on moving forward again after we return from vacation in October.....with what, we're uncertain, but we'll have a few months to figure it out.  I'll probably be laying low on the Bump, but will check in every now and then. 

Bump Power and sticky dust to all of you!

Deanne Shehane

So sorry. I am thinking about you. Some time off does the body and mind some good. Keep in touch. Never know what might happen...

Haribo1

I am sorry...I hope this time off does you good physically and emotionally.  We will miss you here, and I wish you all good things in the coming months (especially that BFP!).  Take care of yourself.

Killer Tomato

So sorry for the frustration.

I think your plan sounds like a good one, and should do you good mentally and physically. I wish you much relaxation, and may your time off prepare you for more successful attempts in the fall. GL!

jandjay

I'm sorry you haven't gotten the results you want yet. I understand the need for a break when this all gets to rough. Sometimes you just have to stop Nd live your life for a while so your mind can get back in the game. Good luck hope to see you back soon.

jcath

I'm so sorry about the BFN.  I hope the time off makes you feel much better and re-charged for Oct. 

MAH123

So sorry about the BFN and enjoy your break. I have to say that having a normal cycle this month, without meds, bw,us, etc. was nice. It kind of felt like I was "me" again and much more in-tune with myself. Have a great vacation!

rach2100

So sorry about the BFFN!  Stupid AF!!  Hopefully the break brings you to where you want to be...time off is a good thing.  Enjoy your vacation!  Sending you much love and hugs!!   *muah*

*Chicken*

I'm sorry about your IUI.

redsoxbono

I'm so sorry.  I'm glad you have a vacation to look forward to.  Good luck!