Be careful what you wish for :( BAD news sperm.

Ginger71

So DH cannot have children. 5 IVFs, 3 m/c and 15 lbs later we were just told it is not possible. The Uro said we can keep trying IVF w/ICSI but I will probably keep having m/cs. He said it is not fixable. Eventually it could work but it may never work. DS or PGD are our only options...and he was not optimistic about PGD.

DH is devastated and my heart is breaking for him. It looks like we are going to move onto DS. I am so overwhelmed. I am going to be 40 in a few months and we have wasted 2 years playing with IVF.

Sorry-I feel like a whiner, especially because I know so many of you are using DS. We are ok with it and have talked about it ...using a donor is not the problem. My main problem with the whole thing is the $$$$$$$ and time we have wasted.

Well, DH wants to go out for ice cream so this is a post and run. I think I'm getting a sundae. Thanks for listeneing.

SLPMel

I'm so sorry.  I can only imagine what you are going through-I'm sending lots of good thoughts you and your husbands way!

MerryMarisa

Ginger, I'm so sorry ((( hugs ))).

theworms

i'm so sorry cutie

if you ever need to talk i'm here

((HUGS))

mrshoppy_1231

I am so sorry ginger - I can't imagine how hard this is for you and your DH. I understand the frustration of the $ spent so far but I really hope DS is the answer for you. ((hugs))

NicoleeBonsai

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. How frustrating that you have been through all that you have and are just hearing this now.

((HUGS))

madelyn07

I'm so sorry sweetie.

 

hillaree

That is terribly difficult news and I am so sorry. Thinking of you as you and your husband grieve.

miesl

We weren't quite as many IVFs in when we got that news... but it sucks so so hard.

I'm going to have to side in with your RE - PGD is probably a recipe for heartache in your case.  The rates of "good" embies is low (between what you're screening out and the ones they just can't get a +/- on), and if you have other issues besides, it's just... not good. 

*hugs*  If you need to bounce something off someone... feel free to PM me. 

etoyama

I am so so sorry ((hugs))

gidge

I'm so sorry  

J9798

I am so sorry...

(((hugs)))

Yellow_Daisy

Ginger I am so sorry.  (((hugs)))

If you ever want to talk about anything have to do with DS please let me know I am happy to help in anyway I can.

katt3233

I'm so sorry.  You are not being whiny at all.  ((((BIG HUGS))))

Mrs.AmandaMqn

I am so very sorry.

I know how much bad sperm sucks so much. giant ::hugs::

hopefulmommy

I'm really sorry for the disappointing news but I hope DS will be your answer! ((Hugs))

roselln2

Oh gosh... I am so sorry. If you need to talk, I'm here too. That was basically what the embryologist said to us at our transfer yesterday, which is one of the reasons we opted to go 100% DS with this cycle. (((hugs))) PM me if you want to talk.

vanessagorc

I just want to say that I'm so sorry.

MyShellyBelly

Wow. I'm so sorry to hear this news. You and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck with whatever road you choose sweetie.

hollymichael

I am so sorry.  I know that the RE's don't want to do unnecessary testing, but sometimes I think they do too little before putting us on the IVF path.  Lots of ((hugs)).

periwnkl10

Just wanted to say that I'm so sorry that you and your hubby have to go through this. Sending positive thoughts you way.

dysbaby

So sorry to hear you and DH are going through this right now. Good luck with whatever you both decide. ((hugs))

Kuleama

I am so sorry. I can only imagine what you guys are going through

{{{hugs}}}

Jill070707

I am so sorry.  I can only imagine how this news made you both feel.  I just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and your husband.  I wish you luck with whatever your next step is.  *hugs*