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Part of my post ET instructions was to not have sex until beta. When were you told it was OK to have sex after your beta?

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  • OrangeSmokeOrangeSmoke member

    After a good h/b is confirmed.

    Though we were way to scared to.

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  • mbjmaybebabymbjmaybebaby
    We were told to wait until after the 1st trimester but we have been too scared to.
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  • svp1537svp1537
    we were given the ok after my 2nd beta came back, but I was too scared. and now I am spotting off and on and I just don't want to deal with the scare of -possibly- more blood after sex. too risky for me right now.
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  • mama_cito95mama_cito95 member
    We never asked for a green light, but we waited until after 2nd beta.  However, I started spotting after, and it freaked me out.  RE had me go in for an emergency u/s to check if everything was OK (I was 6w3d).  We saw a hb.  I spotted again the next time we had sex a few days after that.
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    IVF #2: ER 06/20/12; ET 6/25/12: transferred 2 embies; Beta #1 on 7/5/12= BFN
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  • iluvadamiluvadam
    after h/b on u/s was confirmed.  Congrats again by the way!!
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  • GenRN45GenRN45
    With all of our complications, about 4 weeks ago. We still haven't.
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  • cookie_queencookie_queen
    We were just cleared today. But the severe OHSS was another factor.
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  • SweetBijouSweetBijou
    Not until after 8 weeks, when the MFM gave us the okay (the RE wouldn't give her okay).
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  • schoolsoutbrideschoolsoutbride
    I still don't have the OK, though I also had some bleeding early on (a SCH, but it's resolved.)
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  • m&m2006m&m2006 member
    as soon as heartbeat was confirmed on ultrasound, we were given the green light.
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  • BBColt78BBColt78 member
    They found a perigestational bleed in me at 6w5d. . . no action until 12 weeks.
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    Beta #2 (4w4d)- 4,577
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  • eyenerdeyenerd
    My RE is strict and said 12 weeks.  However, both times we have just had too much anxiety so it wasn't worth it.  I have also had some bleeding scares too.  I think if i ever got pregnant naturally it wouldn't phase me, but after all that we have gone through, we just are too panicked!
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  • cadencaden member
    I was also told after first tri. I had bleeding at 7 weeks so I don't know if that's why I was told to wait to so long. It wasn't hard to wait. I was way too paranoid anyway.
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  • Babsie7Babsie7 member
    imagembjmaybebaby:
    We were told to wait until after the 1st trimester but we have been too scared to.
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    imageOrangeSmoke:

    After a good h/b is confirmed.

    Though we were way to scared to.

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